Dilation question....

[justme19]

Hey all,
I am just cerious when dilating is there a certain way you have to do it. Like.... do you have to be lieing down or can it be down while sitting and say watching TV or on the computer.
Hope nobody takes offence to this topic... sorry in advance if you do.

thanks

[Renate]

With dilation you are dealing with a rigid, bulky object stuck inside of you.
You can not really bend at the waist in the least.
You still have a few inches protruding out of you, so sitting is out of the question.
Standing could be possible and some have reported doing it once for novelty.

Normally you would lie down flat.
To watch TV or read you could raise your head and shoulders a bit.
To achieve full penetration you really have to keep the rest of your torso down flat.

[Valerie Elizabeth]

Not to sound kind of silly, but what about a jelly dildo?  I would imagine that it would accomplish the dilating portion, and it would allow you to bend at least a little without discomfort (I would imagine).

Just a thought.

[Renate]

When you consider that the difference between successive sizes of dilators is 1/8"
that means that it's only 1/16" bigger in all directions.
If you dilated with something a bit squishy it would easily squeeze down 1/16" in the tight spots.
You don't want that, you want the tight spots to be stretched.
One of the tightest spots is the PC muscle, it's very strong.
You need something pretty hard to stretch that.

It's all not particularly comfortable, but also not particularly uncomfortable.