I am not a beat around the bush kind of girl. How is she saying this?
Is it in an accusatory tone, quizzical or just matter of fact nuetral?
I do not believe this is something Moms would say lightly to their sons.
If she is not making you feel uncomfortable as if she thinks there is
something wrong with you, the next time she said something like that,
I would pleasantly ask her is she trying to ask me something by
pointing these things out and then I would lay my cards out on
the table. She is going to find out one way or another, right.