I came here primarily to find advice, to feel safe, and to be able to talk on a website where the majority understand what I am going through. Though my friends are (for the most part) incredibly wonderful people who listen and help all they can, I always desire another person like me to talk to, who understands first hand, and not just what they've been told and come to accept. A sense of acceptance, understanding, and on some levels, empathy, are very nice.