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Passive ftms?

Started by emoboi, November 02, 2009, 02:58:16 AM

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emoboi

Well I'm quiet passive and everything, I guess I'd be the submissive one in a relationship most definately and stuff but I just don't want to be treated badly I mean I sometimes think I deserve that but, that's a whole nother therapy session but I just guess I'm quite a mess now
So I guess are any of you other guys out there passive or anything?
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Jay

I am not passive I am def the dominate one.

>:-)

Jay


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Lachlann

Quote from: Jay on November 02, 2009, 04:17:57 AM
I am not passive I am def the dominate one.

>:-)

Jay

Word.

I'm sure there's some submissives and passives about, though.
Don't be scared to fly alone, find a path that is your own
Love will open every door it's in your hands, the world is yours
Don't hold back and always know, all the answers will unfold
What are you waiting for, spread your wings and soar
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Miniar




"Everyone who has ever built anywhere a new heaven first found the power thereto in his own hell" - Nietzsche
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Silver

Well I'm kind of passive.

Don't think I deserve any crappy treatment though, you should probably go to therapy for that.
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Nimetön

Quote from: emoboi on November 02, 2009, 02:58:16 AM
Well I'm quiet passive and everything, I guess I'd be the submissive one in a relationship most definately and stuff but I just don't want to be treated badly I mean I sometimes think I deserve that but, that's a whole nother therapy session but I just guess I'm quite a mess now
So I guess are any of you other guys out there passive or anything?

Yes, I knew a fellow like that, back in Seattle.  Devout buddhist, gay transman, very short and always smiling.  He was sweet, relaxed, flexible, sunny, friendly, passive, submissive; we would do whatever he asked, just because he was so lovable.  Ruled his little circle with a plush fist, you could say.

You're unusual, Emo, but you're not a freak.

- N
While it is entirely possible that your enemy entertains some irrational prejudice against you, for which you bear no responsibility... have you entertained the possibility that you are wrong?
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Walter

Somedays I feel very dominant but then somedays I'll feel very passive. But mostly passive..
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CodyJess

It swings with my demeanor, but I definitely have an extremely passive and submissive side.
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Matthew J. F

It depends on the woman and my moods. I'm more dominate then submissive, however I find dominating women to be a turn on for me... therefor I turn from a dominating man to a passive guy :D
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KaydinTheSquire

Usually with most girls (there are exceptions) I'm dominant but with most guys I'm usually more passive.
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Nathan.

I'm normally quite passive but I can be dominant from time to time.
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YoungSoulRebel

Depends on the situation.

I'm usually pretty sexually dominant, but when I'm in love, I can be versatile.

In most social situations, it can vary wildly.  When it's a subject I have a lot of knowledge in, I can be quite aggressive, but then there are some people that I've actually rather shy and passive around for no explicable reason; a friend who's done some astrology readings says that this may be more of a "textbook Leo" trait than some people realise -- she says that while it's more typically thought-of as Leonine to be extremely assertive-aggressive, it can still be a Leo trait to be a bit more passive, etc, around quieter people -- "playing to the audience", in a way, through a more casual form of flattery.

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emoboi

omg I this kid asked me for a dollar and i said i didnt have one because i only had one for me so i stuck the dollar in the vending machine and was deciding what to get and then this kid just walks up and starts punching in buttons and it's just like what are you doing and hes just like "what"  and but i didnt do anything about it i just walked away but it wasnt nice
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DamagedChris

Quote from: emoboi on November 04, 2009, 09:31:12 PM
omg I this kid asked me for a dollar and i said i didnt have one because i only had one for me so i stuck the dollar in the vending machine and was deciding what to get and then this kid just walks up and starts punching in buttons and it's just like what are you doing and hes just like "what"  and but i didnt do anything about it i just walked away but it wasnt nice



...at that point I would have made a scene. I'm definitely not passive/calm enough to deal with that.
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GQjoey

I've always been pretty dominant, in relationships, and in the bedroom. Most fems like a guy to take control..I've dated a couple that liked to "take charge" every now and than, and couldn't even complain.
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Kurzar

I'm extremely dominant, but I avoid confrontation. Mostly because I can easily fly off the handle so I walk away to keep myself in check.  Sexually tho I prefer being dominated but my 2 mates are both subby gay males so.... it's always a switch for me lol
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GDTripp

Publicly, I'm "Walking along minding my own business, please don't gaybash me" passive. Relationship-wise, I'm the dominant one. I'm working on letting my 'hubby' have his turn tho, especially when picking where to eat out.  ;)
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Lachlann

Quote from: emoboi on November 04, 2009, 09:31:12 PM
omg I this kid asked me for a dollar and i said i didnt have one because i only had one for me so i stuck the dollar in the vending machine and was deciding what to get and then this kid just walks up and starts punching in buttons and it's just like what are you doing and hes just like "what"  and but i didnt do anything about it i just walked away but it wasnt nice

Well, that's probably better than my reaction. I probably would have shoved the guy and asked him what the hell was wrong with him.
Don't be scared to fly alone, find a path that is your own
Love will open every door it's in your hands, the world is yours
Don't hold back and always know, all the answers will unfold
What are you waiting for, spread your wings and soar
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Alex_C

Quote from: emoboi on November 02, 2009, 02:58:16 AM
Well I'm quiet passive and everything, I guess I'd be the submissive one in a relationship most definately and stuff but I just don't want to be treated badly I mean I sometimes think I deserve that but, that's a whole nother therapy session but I just guess I'm quite a mess now
So I guess are any of you other guys out there passive or anything?

Nope not passive here, but you can sit on my lap and we'll talk about it .....
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Bellaon7

No! I must be slapped, spanked, & beaten into submiision...ooo, I can't even do this right. stupid, stupid...oh, yes cupid! 
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