Obviously there needs to be balance and reason here. There are so many different risks in life whether it is driving, drugs, sex, being out at night, stress, or a number of other things. It is therefore important that information be made available to people who wish to live as healthy and risk-free lifestyle as possible. The difference comes down to solicited vs. unsolicited advice. Solicited advice is advice that you ask for. That means that if a gay or straight person would like information about HIV/AIDS then they can go online and google it, go to a library or book store and read about it, or pick up information from their primary physician. Unsolicited advice is when you are told you need to do or not do something when you never asked for their opinion in the first place. An example is if you are kissing someone at a bar and someone throws a condom down in front of you. Most reasonable people would consider that extremely rude and an invasion of privacy.
I value life but I value freedom and choice more. The information is out there for people who want it. For people who don't care or don't want, sorry to say but it is their problem. It may sound cruel but I don't believe in forced safety. This is 2009 not 1809. In 1809 it was hard to find much information on anything outside of what your local town or city knew. Your best bet would be seeking out books on something but even finding the right ones could pose a challenge. This is 2009 where just about anyone anywhere in the world can get to a computer and type their query in a search engine. There really isn't a need to "widely distribute" information to people when it is already widely available. Safer sex programs are already included in schools and many workplaces also have employee assistance programs to help them with their issues including healthy lifestyles.
Unless a bar is actually doing a fundraiser for HIV/AIDS, I really don't think the topic should even be in a bar. Again, people who want healthcare can go to a doctor to find it or search using some of the methods mentioned above. People go to a bar to have a good time. They want to socialize, drink alcohol, and potentially have a one-night stand. They already know what they are doing and they already know the risks they are taking. Attempts to stop them from doing what they already intended are basically "save your soul" attempts.
So again, I'm not against saving lives but I am against forced safety. If a person is not concerned about their life that is sad but that is their choice as a free man or woman. I see many of these aggressive "life-saving" attempts as a mask of socialism. In a socialistic (marxist) society, all of your needs and wants are decided for you. In a capitalistic society, needs and wants are left to the individual to decide (known as the pursuit of happiness). The OP is an example of autocractic techniques where people are rounded up and HIV tested whether they consent or not. That is in essence "forced safety." I would rather have a country where people make stupid choices and die and others make smart choices and live with the information made freely available than a society where everyone is forced to do things in the guise "of their own good" whether they like it or not.
I don't think we are disagreeing in terms of supporting a healthy society but that this is more of a disagreement in terms of methods and politics. Isn't freedom great, though?
Britney