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Abortion. Pro Life or Pro Choice TS Men and Woman only please.

Started by Jordan, December 12, 2009, 04:43:22 AM

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Miniar

Quote from: Ashley4214 on December 16, 2009, 08:24:29 PM
If you think the law and government is wrong, you should have every right to advocate change to make it right.
I agree with this particular suggestion, but I still say it's self defense, first and foremost, and no human being should be forced to experience an intrusion on their own body, complete with excruciating pain, exhaustion, and mucking with it's inner working, against her will, as that would be torture.



"Everyone who has ever built anywhere a new heaven first found the power thereto in his own hell" - Nietzsche
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Asfsd4214

Quote from: Miniar on December 16, 2009, 08:28:58 PM
I agree with this particular suggestion, but I still say it's self defense, first and foremost, and no human being should be forced to experience an intrusion on their own body, complete with excruciating pain, exhaustion, and mucking with it's inner working, against her will, as that would be torture.

I don't really disagree with you. No one should have to be forced to experience a pregnancy that they don't want. No one should be born without 2 parents who love them, and everyone should be raised in a nice home with parents that are there for them. But tragically the world just doesn't work like that. And the reality is that unplanned and unwanted pregnancies happen and as much as I wish they didn't, I can't help but feel that abortion is even more of an injustice than the unwanted pregnancy itself.
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The None Blonde

Not to mention the emotional torment of giving up a child you bore... if that happens... or the disruption to life caused by keeping the child, not to mention the implications to the childs life and upbringing if the parent/ family are not ready or able to care for it.

The philosophical view of 'when an egg and sperm meet its a new life' is quite nice... its very romantic... mommy egg met daddy sperm and lived happily ever after... The reality is far from the truth and much less fluffy and romantic. Perhaps its my scientific education, my different aproach to life... but I agree with Miniar, Every woman that is to give over a portion of her life in time and literal energy to the growth of a child has the right to decide the path...  to a point. Controversial point, but I stand by that. 'its philosophical' is probably the lamest argument in the book when faced with overwhelming oposition. Belive as you wish, but do not expect women to relinquish the rights to our own bodies easily...

You can take those rights from my cold god damn dead fingers personally...
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Amy85

Quote from: Janet Lynn on December 12, 2009, 10:40:13 AM
Pro-Choice.  It should only be for rape, incest or when the Mother's life is in danger.  As a means of birth control, No.

Enough said.

Hugs and Love
Janet


Exactly the way I feel as well.
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Kaori

Quote from: Janet Lynn on December 12, 2009, 10:40:13 AM
Pro-Choice.  It should only be for rape, incest or when the Mother's life is in danger.  As a means of birth control, No.

Enough said.



Hugs and Love
Janet

^ ^ this
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Silver

Forgive me if I'm wrong, but it's kind of funny how the MTFs generally seem to be pro-life and FTMs are about split down the middle.
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Asfsd4214

Quote from: SilverFang on December 17, 2009, 01:07:01 AM
Forgive me if I'm wrong, but it's kind of funny how the MTFs generally seem to be pro-life and FTMs are about split down the middle.

You're wrong, but I forgive you.  ;D

I did a quick tally of the first 3 pages.

MTF -
Pro Life in all circumstances: 2 (including me)
Pro Choice in all circumstances: 5
Abortions acceptable only in cases of rape or incest (but not medical reasons, I've kept that under pro-life): 2
Plus one who identified as pro choice but didn't go into any details

FTM -
Pro Life in all circumstances: 1
Pro Choice in all circumstances: 7
Abortions acceptable only in cases of rape or incest (but not medical reasons, I've kept that under pro-life): 2
Plus two who identified as pro choice but didn't go into any details

Looks more like FTM's are overwhelmingly in favor of pro-choice. MTF's are likely the same, however less of them have voted generally.
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Miniar

Quote from: Ashley4214 on December 16, 2009, 10:23:46 PM
I don't really disagree with you. No one should have to be forced to experience a pregnancy that they don't want. No one should be born without 2 parents who love them, and everyone should be raised in a nice home with parents that are there for them. But tragically the world just doesn't work like that. And the reality is that unplanned and unwanted pregnancies happen and as much as I wish they didn't, I can't help but feel that abortion is even more of an injustice than the unwanted pregnancy itself.

Should a woman then be allowed to defend herself from other impositions against her physical and psychological well-being?
If murder is always worse than torture, is anyone allowed to defend themselves in a way that can/will kill their assailant if there's no direct threat of death?



"Everyone who has ever built anywhere a new heaven first found the power thereto in his own hell" - Nietzsche
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Asfsd4214

Quote from: Miniar on December 17, 2009, 04:53:43 AM
Should a woman then be allowed to defend herself from other impositions against her physical and psychological well-being?
If murder is always worse than torture, is anyone allowed to defend themselves in a way that can/will kill their assailant if there's no direct threat of death?

If the "torture" were no worse than a pregnancy, and the "assailant" was as innocent as a newborn baby, with the "torture" only being for relatively limited time.
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The None Blonde

There you go showing you're total inability to understand...

Pregnancy can cause mental breakdowns, depression, suicide, even if the baby is never born.

Women have the right to defend thier own bodies, and your new reasons still suck... ANY torture is for a limited time... and as for innocent as a newborn baby... its not born, or even a baby yet.... innocence cannot be attributed to something that has no ability to even comprehend the difference.

As for 'torture' being no worse than pregancy... Hon, Ask any woman thats been through it, Labour is bad enough, but as a total... it takes a LOT out of a woman, and changes lives....


*sigh* Such big decicive views... so little sodding clue.

Are you sure your last name isn't Chaney?
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Miniar

IF I would get pregnant (seeing as I currently possess the biological components that could result in that), no matter if it were consensual sexual contact, rape, freak accident or divine intervention, I would terminate the pregnancy.
If I were unable to do so because it would be illegal, for any reason, I can pretty safely say I'd attempt to take my life, and probably succeed.

And I wouldn't be the first person to do so in a situation like that.



"Everyone who has ever built anywhere a new heaven first found the power thereto in his own hell" - Nietzsche
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The None Blonde

Miniar raises an excelent point... F2m guys that fall pregnant in a world where abortion is illegal... Jebus... I can't imagine how bad that would feel for guys that don't want that... (Don't start folks i refer to only one group that hate it).

I can quite realistically imagine they would take thier lives, look at the m2f and f2m deaths without having something so feminine pushed on guys against thier will.
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Hannah

Quote from: The None Blonde on December 17, 2009, 07:22:00 AM
There you go showing you're total inability to understand...

Are you sure your last name isn't Chaney?

Easy there sparky, they understand the issues and know exacty what they are doing so don't sell them short. Cheney is a lot smarter than
he's given credit for. I've met the guy and he has a real mad scientist vibe. Evil and insane yes, but he's no dummy.

The truly insidious part of the prolife movement is the way they have realized they can't win public opinion, and so have gone to work on undermining access. It's deliberate, planned, and it's working better than any constitutional amendment. We wear ourselves out with this debate then come home to Oregon and California with our life partners and protcted rights, while in the rest of the nation they pass local legislation and business codes that make it impossible for abortion doctors and clinics to practice...effectively doing an end run around us.

edit: spelling and grammar  :-*
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Asfsd4214

Quote from: Miniar on December 17, 2009, 07:34:10 AM
IF I would get pregnant (seeing as I currently possess the biological components that could result in that), no matter if it were consensual sexual contact, rape, freak accident or divine intervention, I would terminate the pregnancy.
If I were unable to do so because it would be illegal, for any reason, I can pretty safely say I'd attempt to take my life, and probably succeed.

And I wouldn't be the first person to do so in a situation like that.

If you check back, you'll see the very first thing I said on the thread was I'm completely 100% against abortion in all but situations where it will likely be required due to extreme risk of complication for the mother.

So I would probably not challenge an abortion where it's shown that the mother is suicidal directly as a result of the pregnancy.

If the mothers life is in an unusual and exceptional danger because from the pregnancy, that would be the one and only reason abortion would be acceptable too me. If the child or mother are likely to die from the pregnancy anyway, then it's an entirely different situation.

Quote from: The None Blonde on December 16, 2009, 03:57:39 PM
Nobody is insulting you, so stop playing the victim card...


Quote from: The None Blonde on December 16, 2009, 08:15:43 AM
From this day forth, due to your own moral beliefs... I demand that you cease any self stimulation (masturbation) you may partake in. Any ejaculation of genetic material is wasting the CHANCE of a life that could have happened had there been a vagina waiting to catch it, a favouring easterly wind, and good omens from the gods... no seriously... your standpoint is fairly clear and defined... but this fits in quite simply.... so hands off.... ok? :)

Quote from: The None Blonde on December 16, 2009, 03:57:39 PM
I'm not going to continue this... you just arent going to listen to anything, regardless of what argument or evidence is used. So whatever... remember... no touchy.. its against your morals ;)

Quote from: The None Blonde on December 17, 2009, 07:22:00 AM
*sigh* Such big decicive views... so little sodding clue.

Are you sure your last name isn't Chaney?

Alright, playing victim card now. I haven't made any such insults, to anyone on this thread.

But since you've decided to ensure that my record on abortion discussions degrading into personal attacks remains 100%, I guess I'm done with this thread. I've said pretty much everything I wanted to say.
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Alyssa M.

That's rather tautological of you, isn't it? Jump into a discussion on the controversial topic of your choice and stay in it until someone insults you, and every discussion will end with an insult. NB insulting you doesn't mean pro-choice people are by nature insulting. It just means that if you couldn't strike out or fly out, everyone would bat 1000.
All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another.

   - Anatole France
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Miniar

Quote from: Ashley4214 on December 17, 2009, 03:27:24 PMIf you check back, you'll see the very first thing I said on the thread was I'm completely 100% against abortion in all but situations where it will likely be required due to extreme risk of complication for the mother.

So I would probably not challenge an abortion where it's shown that the mother is suicidal directly as a result of the pregnancy.

If the mothers life is in an unusual and exceptional danger because from the pregnancy, that would be the one and only reason abortion would be acceptable too me. If the child or mother are likely to die from the pregnancy anyway, then it's an entirely different situation.

So you'll think Abortion is a viable option in situations where a woman would rather die than carry to term?



"Everyone who has ever built anywhere a new heaven first found the power thereto in his own hell" - Nietzsche
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Tammy Hope

Quote from: Miniar on December 15, 2009, 06:57:17 AM
What about self defence?

A woman is allowed to defend herself, even to the point of inflicting lethal bodily harm, to an outside assailant, no?
No one would convict a woman of murder if she defended herself, for example, against a rapist.

Why does a collection of cells with the potential to grow to a child have greater rights to a woman's body than a woman herself?

I really do mean these questions, I want to understand "why" this opinion.

Legally though, the self defense card can only be played when you are in IMMEDIATE risk of real physical harm or death.

I thihnk pretty much everyone supports the right to abortion, and wouldn't call it murder, if the existence of the child presented an IMMEDIATE risk of real physical harm or death.

But just as I cannot kill in self defense because a person causes me inconvenience or economic damage (i.e., for instance, I can't kill my son because I can't afford to support him) likewise a woman who is pregnant with a child which will cause her life difficulty, but not physical harm, cannot claim that the abortion is an act of self defense - at least not under the current legal paradigm.


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Quote from: Miniar on December 17, 2009, 06:02:33 PM
So you'll think Abortion is a viable option in situations where a woman would rather die than carry to term?
The problem with this exception is that it makes it simple for any woman seeking an abortion to claim that is the case because there's no way to prove otherwise.

IF the "gatekeeper" to such an abortion were as diligent as your typical gender therapist is expected to be that would perhaps get to the bottom of it but there's only a narrow window before you get into creating a late-term abortion where there would have been an early one without the screeing.

In my humble opinion, saying "I would rather die than be pregnant" is really an argument without much merit because pregnancy will end in a relative short term and it's nonsensical to end a decades long life (potentially) over a months long situation.

it's like being sentenced to prison for a year and saying you'd rather die than serve the term - you might really feel that way but it's still a ridiculous conclusion objectively.

I'd say such a woman should be ensured close mental health monitoring throughout the pregnancy but that it should not be a free ticket to get an abortion.


Post Merge: December 17, 2009, 05:21:17 PM

To amend the previous post, I WOULD accept that a pre-existing F2M case of GID was sufficient evidence that pregnancy would do real mental damage to the person who was pregnant. I assume there are possibly other such exceptions.

A closely defined standard that avoided the "Oh, by the way" sudden case of feigned depression would be an obviously compassionate choice here.


Post Merge: December 17, 2009, 06:25:28 PM

Quote from: The None Blonde on December 16, 2009, 10:23:56 PM
Not to mention the emotional torment of giving up a child you bore... if that happens... or the disruption to life caused by keeping the child, not to mention the implications to the childs life and upbringing if the parent/ family are not ready or able to care for it.

there are thousands and thousands of women who DID have abortions and testify to considerable psychological trauma resulting from THAT choice too.

There is no reason to assume that either choice is clearly the one which will ensure no psychological repercussions in the aftermath.

That being the case, it is at best a secondary consideration.
Disclaimer: due to serious injury, most of my posts are made via Dragon Dictation which sometimes butchers grammar and mis-hears my words. I'm also too lazy to closely proof-read which means some of my comments will seem strange.


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Miniar

A pregnancy doesn't just inconvenience, there are thousands of little things it does to the body, many of them permanently damaging to the system even without any complications what so ever.
And childbirth itself is no joking matter. It does cause permanent damage, even when everything goes smoothly.

And you don't have to be transgendered to suffer real and overwhelming psychological effects of pregnancy.

In countries where there's no legally available options to terminate, women have been known to try truly dangerous methods, "home remedies" and such, out of desperation, trying to get out of a situation they truly don't want to be in, and loosing their life in the process.
Coat-hangers, Extreme amounts of Alcohol, Poisonous herbs, even throwing themselves down a flight of stairs hoping the trauma will end the pregnancy.

And then there was that case of the 12 year old girl who was denied abortion, forced to carry to term, and then forced to try to give birth, resulting in the death of both child, and child...




"Everyone who has ever built anywhere a new heaven first found the power thereto in his own hell" - Nietzsche
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Hannah

It's freaking barbarism Min, and it's infuriating to think about. All that so some white trash shotgun toting hillbilly can feel right with "the Lawd" on Sunday when he takes a hipocrisy break from beating his wife and molesting his daughter to go sit in church for an hour.

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Tammy Hope

Quote from: Miniar on December 17, 2009, 06:32:12 PM
A pregnancy doesn't just inconvenience, there are thousands of little things it does to the body, many of them permanently damaging to the system even without any complications what so ever.
And childbirth itself is no joking matter. It does cause permanent damage, even when everything goes smoothly.
I hesitate to say this...and do so with the greatest possible respect...but you make pregnancy sound like a disease.

It is a naturally occurring process which occurs in all mammals and has millions of years of evolution to bring it to a point where it is today. Nothing which happens in a normal pregnancy is "damaging" - it is simply "altering"

I can't help but suggest that your inborn aversion to the female condition perhaps colors your opinion of pregnancy. I think I can say with confidence that the vast majority of natal females would not agree with your description.

(I know that sounds presumptions not being a natal female but I don't think you have to be one to know that)
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And you don't have to be transgendered to suffer real and overwhelming psychological effects of pregnancy.
Of course not, and I didn't say that - i said that being trans would be prima facia evidence that such trauma was a potentially psychological trauma.
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In countries where there's no legally available options to terminate, women have been known to try truly dangerous methods, "home remedies" and such, out of desperation, trying to get out of a situation they truly don't want to be in, and loosing their life in the process.
Certainly. but that in and of itself is not justification for the procedure.

the legality or illegality of abortion must stand on it's own merit. Saying "people will do it anyway" makes no more sense than saying that we should have euthenasia centers that you can take the person you want to kill to so they can be put down safely.

(I'm not saying "abortion is murder!!" just speaking to the logic of the point made)
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Coat-hangers, Extreme amounts of Alcohol, Poisonous herbs, even throwing themselves down a flight of stairs hoping the trauma will end the pregnancy.

And then there was that case of the 12 year old girl who was denied abortion, forced to carry to term, and then forced to try to give birth, resulting in the death of both child, and child...
Which, of course, is a situation that (a) the great majority of people who call themselves "pro-life" wouldn't agree with and (b) falls under "threat to the life of the mother" and is thus not an argument relevant to the overall abortion discussion.


Post Merge: December 18, 2009, 02:15:24 AM

Quote from: Becca on December 17, 2009, 07:13:41 PM
It's freaking barbarism Min, and it's infuriating to think about. All that so some white trash shotgun toting hillbilly can feel right with "the Lawd" on Sunday when he takes a hipocrisy break from beating his wife and molesting his daughter to go sit in church for an hour.

Somewhere in Arkansas, some redneck speaks:

"The only reason they want this health care crap is some perverted leather-wearing freak ->-bleeped-<- can take a break from molesting little boys long enough to get a boob job his dick cut off while I pay for it"

Ah....the circle of life.

I sure wish one side or the other would rise above.
Disclaimer: due to serious injury, most of my posts are made via Dragon Dictation which sometimes butchers grammar and mis-hears my words. I'm also too lazy to closely proof-read which means some of my comments will seem strange.


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