It's funny... and I honestly shouldn't even be posting this, but I never thought being with an ftm would be the same as being with a bio-guy. Yeah... I was wrong. I decided to end my string of celibacy, and just wanted a fling with a random guy. After much deliberation (because I'm a hypochondriac), I decided to sleep with this ftm guy I met. He had been on T as long as I have, but hadn't had even top surgery, and I was sure I'd see him as a chick, or it wouldn't be like being with a guy, but... I was totally wrong. Despite the breasts, he was very much a guy, and I couldn't really tell the difference. If I couldn't... well, I suppose that bodes well for other folks. And hey, my girlfriend, who's never been with anyone before but bio-guys, says I'm better than any guy she's ever been with... hence, she can tell the difference, but in a very good way.
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