His lack of interest in sex has her feeling threatened, insecure
Published: January 1st, 2010 04:53 AM
http://www.adn.com/play/columns/love/story/1075569.htmlDear Wanda and Wayne,
Sex has been an issue since day one of my marriage. My husband and I saved ourselves until our wedding night, after two years of dating. Not having sex never seemed difficult for him. He doesn't seem interested and rarely initiates. (I'm attractive, so I don't think that's the issue.) We began to fight about that, and about whether we'd have a baby and suspicious computer activities. He wouldn't address the issue about a baby (I am now over 40 and time has slipped away) and acted as if I were crazy about the computer thing. He locks it if he walks away for two minutes and the only way to access it is with a fingerprint scan. This past summer he left town for a week on business. I opened his e-mail (on a different computer) to get his hotel information. To my heartbreak, I found the text for a personal ad and sign-on information for a different e-mail account. The ad he placed (I found it online) was for a first time, can-you-teach-me-how-to-be-with-you type of tryst with a transsexual or cross-dresser.
