Well, i finally "passed" ALMOST beyond a doubt. Part of me is jumping for joy, the other part laughing hysterically.
I had a gyno visit today (ick) and was ready and waiting (ick) when the doctor came in - first time i saw her, we never met before. She abruptly stopped, gave me a surprised look (almost like a "why is a guy (or why are you) here" look), glanced at my file, looked at me again, then stepped in with a strange look on her face.
When i told her i was transsexual a few minutes later she was like "Oh, well, that's cool - also explains why i had to think about it when i came in and saw you sitting there!" And we laughed over it. I honestly don't think she was 100% sure what i was until i told her.... Having a slight cold with a raspy voice helped i guess.

What a place (and time) to (sort of) pass.