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What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Started by Wendy, July 16, 2009, 11:07:44 AM

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barbie

Interestingly, my goal is to impress girls, not men. I do not like men's attention. I am very happy when a very attractive woman with stylish fashion studies me.

An episode: about 2 years ago, I happened to attend a buffet dinner with my colleagues at a hotel restaurant here. And later, I knew that the hotel was helding a kind of international meeting for super models. Dozens of models around the world had dinner with us! Some of them were as tall as me. If they were shorter, then they have far slimmer waist than mine.

Unfortunately, I wore very plain clothes as I went there from my workplace and did not know anything about the meeting. I just wore white capris and sneakers. But, some of models there also studied my body shape. My colleagues in the table also commented that my body looked as slim as the models. One female colleague complained that most of models reveal their bellies despite of rather chilly weather. I was very glad that those models looked at me, and of course that not only my tongue, but also my eyes could enjoy at that night.

Barbie~~
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Wendy

Quote from: barbie on December 06, 2009, 10:53:09 AM
Interestingly, my goal is to impress girls, not men. I do not like men's attention. I am very happy when a very attractive woman with stylish fashion studies me.

After careful consideration I have found that the TG community is as diverse as the general population.  We have some common ground but our expression is still diverse.

I have yet to resolve these issues after a life time.  In person I can only express myself to a select few which include people similar to myself.  It is a nice feeling.
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YellowDaisy

Quote from: Wendy on July 16, 2009, 11:07:44 AM
I am not having much success in wearing female clothes and not drawing attention.  I want to shift my clothing slowly so that no one notices.  I did wear a business woman's wool white pants to work and got no comments.  They looked good and got no reaction.  That was perfect.

How can people shift gradually so that no one notices?
you really can't do that, because you will eventually get to one point where you look obviously female, and most of the time, people already have the suspision this is who you are before you make any actual changes. you need to be yourself, and forget what other people are doing. i have the paranormal ideas that people are thinking things when i'm taking another short step, but that's only because i'm so nervous, and i don't feel comfortable. act natural, forget about what others may be thinking, and remind yourself that this is just a change that you will gradually become more comfortable with.
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jami w.

the only thing i own for guys is my work boots

in the winter, i usually wear cordoury  sry cant spell it haha pants long sleeve shirts sweaters
my purple an red north face jackets stuff like that. with my make up an brn haired wig, -

spring/summer all girls clothes capris shorts n not the bootie ones either nono
with loose t shirts, im thin but not that thin haha i look like im bout 5 months pregnant which i kinda like. yea weird i kno but thats me. well that way i kinda have lil boobies popping out haha
all my sneakers are girls my socks, i even once in awhile will wear the lace trimmed ones sexii
all my clothes are from old navy, a& e ambercrombie fitch  stores like that.. im ways i can pass
cuz ive got a smooth looking baby face. but if i dont feel like dressing up to go to the store ill just wear the lounge pants with a hoodie- ive lived my life in hiding so to say but no more
to work i wear girls jeans  an sweaters they are girls but look neutral wit my boots
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Alexie

Quote from: Wendy on December 06, 2009, 05:06:10 PM
After careful consideration I have found that the TG community is as diverse as the general population.  We have some common ground but our expression is still diverse.
This I am really beginning to see. But in a weird way, I can relate to them all?

Quote from: Wendy on December 06, 2009, 05:06:10 PM
I have yet to resolve these issues after a life time.  In person I can only express myself to a select few which include people similar to myself.  It is a nice feeling.

I know EXACTLY what you mean  :)

Alexie :icon_flower:
"On the plains of hesitation lay the bleached bones of millions
Who at the dawn of victory sat down and waited
And in waiting died"
(George Cecil - 1923)
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V M

Levi's 501 jeans

But if you've been feminizing with hormones, guys will check you out  :laugh:
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


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gail123

Capri pants with pumps, light make up, breasts taped together, and a matching top from Target. No one, as far as I can tell, pays any attention to me. I've worn this quite a few places, but never anywhere where I had to spend one on one time for an extended period.
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krisalyx

one word PANTS (giggles) i finally got a second pair of proper boot cut jeans problem is my mom (and yes she does know i do crossdress by the way) anyway she didn't quite know my size and the pants are a little big but i am a BIG girl anyway so her sugestion was sorta roll them up inside
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Annette Elmore

My stock unisex look is a ladies t-shirt and jeans tucked in flat or pixie boots and a ladies denim jacket!

But I'm out and don't have any man clothes so I don't have much choice.

Annette xx
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clare aston

Yes i must admit that this is a live issue for me.
I am well known at work for wearing colourful clothes, and using and wearing female accoutrements such as bracelets  - and for favouring shopping bags etc (you would be amazed at just how little it takes to get you commented on!).
We are in the bear pit, and it doesnt matter how 'Equal Opp's' your workplace is - i believe that this is a very good site for giving you an idea of the different kinds of fabric, styles, and material cuts to generally slant yr wardrobe and appearance 'femme-wards'. Have a look!
Unfortunately though, in the end, most clothes arent gender-neutral, and. no matter how much we try to blend in (and, as an androgyne person, i'm as keen as anyone) things will be noticed. Here we go.....!!

Clare
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krisalyx

well i've got so much stuff that i love to wear it's just what you feel comfortable in and that's all that really matters, but i've got one mens buttend up long sleave shirt that i love 'cause on days like this weekend lord knows i'll have to stay as warm as possible we're suposed to be getting a lot of snow, an adorably cute pink polo shirt and a blouse that i LOVE it's a rose coloured blouse, and not to mention my boot cut pants if worn right they look so cute on me (giigle) it's all about atttude (smiles) side's if you got it flaunt it (shakes ass and hips to the tune of "maho de mambo" gods i love that song it's the ultimate hip shaking song
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gail123

For drawing minimal attention attention Capri pants, an inexpensive top from Target,  ankle boots (1" heel), light make up, and granny sunglasses.
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Wendy

Quote from: Virginia Marie on December 13, 2009, 07:39:48 PM
Levi's 501 jeans

But if you've been feminizing with hormones, guys will check you out  :laugh:

I do enjoy reading comments on Susan's.   I have been on feminizing hormones for five years, clear coat my nails, removed 99% of the unwanted hair permanently from my face and body, and push the limits for professional male attire.

This past Friday I am eating lunch with some guys and I am wearing a velvety black jacket, a cobalt blue satiny button down and a pink silk tie with cobalt blue geometric figures.  I have a page boy haircut, shimmery lip gloss, shaped eye brows and other subtle things.  Now one of the guys I know at work that is very intelligent and brilliantly expressive sits down catty cornered to me.  He turns his legs in my direction and sits there looking at me while he talks to the other guys at the table.  He always makes me laugh after school but I felt rather nervous and just ate my food.

I have had a number of interesting experiences as I slowly change.
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V M

Yup, eventually guys will start checkin' you out no matter what your wearing

It's part of they're job  :laugh:
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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