Very beautifully put, thank you Kate. Really. I just hope that will be enough for my family too. I know which ones will disown me, and I cast them out too for other reasons.
Other people are welcome to continue discussing this, but I think I've personally gotten what I wanted out of it, so I think I'm done with this topic.
![Tongue :P](https://www.susans.org/Smileys/susans/tongue.gif)
Edit: Wow, and no sooner do I finish this topic, I'm already in a situation where I need to apply what I've learned. Would anyone like to see the conversation when its done? Its happening via email, and Id keep the other persons name anonymous.