Quote from: Pia on January 29, 2010, 04:56:29 AM
I appreciate the honesty of some of the posters here. My kudos to you.
What I will never understand is why some old MTF transitioners get marry 4, 5, 6 times as men, have 4, 5, 6 kids & then they wake up one foggy Thursday & say that they've "always hated their plumbing so much" . If you hated your plumbing so much, why did you get marry 4, 5, 6 times? If you hated it so much why did you have 4, 5, 6 kids?. To me that tells me that you didn't "hate" it but liked it. If you liked it, be honest with yourself & say so instead of engaging yourself in semantics to deceive people. I can't stand that. It pisses me off.
Walk a mile in my heels, Pia.
The issue of getting married vs the male genitalia are two different subjects.
A similar, though wrong, conclusion could be made by those MTF's who engage in very macho activities or join the army. It is a way to convince themselves that they do not have the feelings that they do.
Also, hon, while I was married multiple times, it was not 4,5, or six times. And too, the ability for me to transition back in the 60's would have not been possible for me.
My genitalia, when it was outside my body, gave me pleasure I can't deny that, it's the way that I was wired. But it doesn't mean that I didn't think that it was ugly and incorrect.
I'm sorry that the complex issues that surround the nature of the late-bloomer transsexual distress you, but I do wish that you would have a bit more compassion.
-Sandy