I was browsing a few days ago and since I have registered I wanted to post.
I always sit when I am dressed up and always use the female restroom. I might be a little higher than the door due to the 4 inch heels, but that only makes me 6'1ish, they are really small as it is.
Anyways, somebody mentioned hovering, I always do this. I will of course wipe the seat, but I hold on to the side rail and just hover about a half an inch above the toilet and...go. I have never...ever made a mess.