May 2009 was when i started really confusing people, a man at the voting place asked if i was a guy or a gal, then later 2 men opened the door for me, one at my doctors office then at the post office, it continued through July, on my next therapist appointment i told my therapist about getting ma'am'd, doors held open etc., i said i thought it was time to go full time, he agreed but said as far as he was concerned i had been full time since May, i had slipped into full time without even knowing it.
Paula