Hi there Andii.
You sound non-binary to me, pretty strongly, and quite healthily I may add. As "just me" is not really gendered from what you describe, your experience sounds gender neutral, or adaptable androgyne to my ears, as you can entertain polarized gender expectations if need be, a good adaptable trait. That is just my first impression though. Labels are subjective and can be limiting, but they do help some people. Just don't inadvertently box yourself in too early, as no_id said, "you are what you read", eventually, at least. If you feel distinct shifts of gender-ness maybe fluid would be a good term. Or perhaps postgender, genderqueer or agendered. All of these things can describe me as well, and fit nicely under that huge androgyne umbrella we all see around these parts.
