Hey Andii

Well as I seem to have inadvertantly come out as androgyne (AKA GGG = Gender Gifted Girl) in the other thread allow me to belatedly join the welcome committee.

Welcome aboard the good ship Susans.

I'm Jenny - I live in Cornwall UK with my partner of the last 22 years. I'm 26 years past my original SRS and I'm the (mostly) mad one! 

Hi there Andii.

You sound non-binary to me, pretty strongly, and quite healthily I may add.  As "just me" is not really gendered from what you describe, your experience sounds gender neutral, or adaptable androgyne to my ears, as you can entertain polarized gender expectations if need be, a good adaptable trait.  That is just my first impression though.  Labels are subjective and can be limiting, but they do help some people.   Just don't inadvertently box yourself in too early, as no_id said, "you are what you read", eventually, at least.  If you feel distinct shifts of gender-ness maybe fluid would be a good term.  Or perhaps postgender, genderqueer or agendered.  All of these things can describe me as well, and fit nicely under that huge androgyne umbrella we all see around these parts.