bathroom?

[Inkwe Mupkins]

ive always passed as male when i go into the womens they flip out and tell me to get out the mens is over there and one time i went into the mens and suprisingly nothing happened. ive thought about using the mens but i cant pee standing up or what if they become suspicus though i doubt they will. I have never been referred to as a female by a stranger and when my mom calls me sis people think she is a freak makes me happy

[Devin87]

If you're passing consistantly, go for it.  Buy yourself an STP device you can use easily and use it in the stall.  Lots of men pee in the stall.  Or you can even sit down like lots of men do-- just take it easy so you don't make the "whistling" noise female-bodied people make when we pee.

[Greg]

Men don't give two hoots about other blokes in the toilets. Just go in, either use an stp or use the stall. No one will care/notice if your wazzing sounds different because you're sitting down.

[kyril]

Go ahead and use the men's. Nobody will be suspicious. The only problem you might encounter with strangers is in men's rooms that have had the stall doors removed - I recommend just finding another bathroom if you encounter one of those.

The only issue I've ever had with using a men's room was when I was out with a friend, who I'm out to, but only quite recently. I went to take a piss, and heard someone walk in and start using the urinal. I wasn't really concerned - it happens all the time and nobody bothers me - so I didn't look to see who it was, I just finished up and went to the sink to wash my hands. At which time I heard myself being addressed (loudly, in a shocked tone of voice) by the female name this friend knows me by. He was using the urinal right next to the sink and I hadn't even noticed. He quickly apologized and said "it's fine, it's fine" and thankfully there was nobody else in the bathroom, but I just about panicked for a second.

Moral of the story: don't use men's rooms when you're out with people who know you as female without warning them first.

[Arch]

just take it easy so you don't make the "whistling" noise female-bodied people make when we pee.

Whistling? 'Splain, please.

[Lachlann]

Whistling? 'Splain, please.

Yeah, I'm confused about that myself. Whistling?

[Greg]

Yeah, I'm confused about that myself. Whistling?

Whistling a jolly tune? Now that would be impressive.

[TheCG]

I agree. If you are passing, just use the mens room. It can be a little intimidating at first, feel rather "forbidden" if you will but you should be fine. Men generally don't want to pay too much attention to others in the bathroom as it can be perceived as "strange" to others.

Just use the stall if you are not using a stp yet. I have learned over the years that many men also sit to pee and some of their mothers actually require them to do it when they are small so they won't pee all over the bathroom floor, toilet, etc.

I think the whistling sound that was referred to is the sound it can sometimes make when a female urinates as the stream passes through the fleshy parts of the anatomy. Correct me if I am wrong.

[kyril]

I have absolutely no idea what 'whistling' you could possibly be referring to.

[j83]

As quoted from a google search - "The female genital anatomy causes a wavering whistling sound to occur when urinating. It's due to the position of the urethra opening and the outer labia"
It's very true actually, i was always very concious of this sound before having surgery to fix all the waterworx an' stuff..

[Lachlann]

As quoted from a google search - "The female genital anatomy causes a wavering whistling sound to occur when urinating. It's due to the position of the urethra opening and the outer labia"
It's very true actually, i was always very concious of this sound before having surgery to fix all the waterworx an' stuff..

I don't get that, though.

[kyril]

Um, yeah, me neither.

[j83]

Well maybe not everyone gets it then? *shrug*

[Lachlann]

Well maybe not everyone gets it then? *shrug*

Well, not everyone's junk ends up being the same, so I'd imagine.

[Devin87]

I thought it was crazy, too, the first time I read about it.  But ever since then every time I piss I can hear it and it annoys the heck out of me.  It's most noticable when you're peeing hard and fast and less noticable when you take it easy, which is what I try to do.  It's not really a whistle like from your mouth or anything, more of that loud pssssssssssssssssssssssss sound that men don't really get.

[peterrabbit]

I thought it was crazy, too, the first time I read about it.  But ever since then every time I piss I can hear it and it annoys the heck out of me.  It's most noticable when you're peeing hard and fast and less noticable when you take it easy, which is what I try to do.  It's not really a whistle like from your mouth or anything, more of that loud pssssssssssssssssssssssss sound that men don't really get.

Haha, i seriously thought you meant like the kind of whistling you can produce with your mouth. Lol. But now that i think about it, there is that sound there that men don't have.

[Radar]

Whistling? 'Splain, please.

Because of where the penis is positioned most of the time when guys pee while sitting down it hits the front of the toilet and kind of trickles down instead of splashing straight into the water.

Here's a better explanation from the TMale site:
"Tip for any men's room: The female genital anatomy causes a wavering whistling sound to occur when urinating. It's due to the position of the urethra opening and the outer labia. You can wait for the bathroom to become empty or you can sit closer to the front edge of the seat and slowly allow the flow to hit the porcelain. That's often where the stream hits when men urinate while sitting on the toilet due to the position of the penis while it hangs down. It takes some finesse and control but it can be done. You can let lose once the room is empty."

Once you learn how to do this technique it is really easy.

[zombiesarepeaceful]

Yeah. It sounds different when a guy vs. a female bodied person pees. I'm very self conscious of it myself. I have an stp, and I highly recommend it. Making one out of a turkey baster or funnel isn't hard at all, and paid off for me. It still makes me all giddy inside even these days, to walk up to a urinal, whip out my stp and take a normal leak like other guys. But really, if you pee slow, it'll be fine. No one is really judging the sound.

About using the men's room...just strut in like you belong in there like any other guy. I think half the challenge of passing is how you hold yourself, how confident you act. If you act confident, people tend not to question you. It eminates in the energy you give off, your posture, etc.

[cynthialee]

Men, who have large forskins that cover the head of the penis completely, make a noise almost the same as the 'whistle' you speak of when they whiz.
Also trust me no dude is listening to tyour whiz. They want to get out as fast as possible, with as little social contact as possible.

[kyril]

Well, um...this might be TMI, but I always hit the porcelain unless I'm just dripping slowly, thought that was normal. Maybe that's why I don't hear the sound of it coming out? (shrug) never paid that close attention to the sound of people pissing, I guess. I doubt anyone does but us.