Become beautiful, more than passable?

[casorce]

Ehhh.... this just totally sucks. I was all hype in being a woman, then it all came crashing down when reality set in, that I probably never will be beautiful. I probably will be passable, but really I cannot afford to get that 100 k surgeries, and I probably will never fix my hands and shoulder sizes.

Well the feeling of being a woman passed again, so I probably won't visit again until that feeling comes again.

What's more important?
Being a woman or being beautiful?

[Cindy]

Interestingly Roger Vadim, who was married to several 'beautiful' women, including BB made the comment that they were so insecure it took hours to leave the house for a party etc. They had to look soooo perfect.

But as casorce just said. Passing as a woman is more important to me than having people drool.

Cindy

[gothique11]

I would have to say that a lot of times beauty is in the eye of the beholder; so what's pretty to someone isn't always pretty to another person. Also, personality counts. Every girl wants to be pretty, even those who are really pretty -- sometimes it can be harder to see the beauty in yourself that other can see.

As for the 100k, sure, you could probably get a lot of work done then... I think? I never had FFS (although, I wouldn't mind that), but as far as I know it depends on what you wanna get done and where you go. Different ppl are also gonna get different stuff done, and which doc you go to might even vary on what the think you should get done.


Post Merge: April 07, 2010, 04:15:46 AM

But as casorce just said. Passing as a woman is more important to me than having people drool.

Cindy

Very true!

[Megan]

What's more important?
Being a woman or being beautiful?

Well that's a hard question, since I sometimes get feelings of being a woman, and then they go away. It's a come and go type deal for me, and I wish it was constant so I would know what direction to go. If I were a woman now, then I probably doubt I want to be a guy unless it was a cute guy.

But beauty to me is something very important to me, since I want people to drool (males and females alike). So if I had to choose; it would be beauty, since I can just go to a gay club and have men drooling over me as a guy, rather than be an ugly woman going into a straight club and being ignore.

I see an average guy in the mirror right now. I do not hate what I see, so that's why I do not know if I am transsexual at all. I just want the way society see me differently. I am probably not transsexual at all then... but rather just crazy which is far worse than transsexualism.

I can't even make sense of myself. But then I could be transsexual, since when I was a child I played with barbies, dressed in a skirt (in private though), worn a wig, and played with the make up. I am feminine by nature, but if I have to live in this body as a male only then I wouldn't die of depression either. It's really being ugly that will cause my depression, and I am not ugly as is. And I worked on my body, then I could be a hot man.

[casorce]

I'll take this opportunity to remind you that youth and beauty are fleeting; they don't last.
If you fixate on these things, what will you do when both are gone?

[Megan]

I'll take this opportunity to remind you that youth and beauty are fleeting; they don't last.
If you fixate on these things, what will you do when both are gone?

Life extension procedures, or live in part-time state of virtual reality with the large virtual community as a young beautiful woman after the wrinkles set in

** in consideration of future technology

And at the same time, just be hungry for wealth as a business owner so I can live in utter comfort. I first have to make a business. But if not rich or successful then back to virtual reality it is.

I think I can maintain youth till 38-40, and beauty until 50-55 though. That's how my family ages.

[casorce]

Life extension procedures, or live in permanent state of virtual reality with the large virtual community as a young beautiful woman after the wrinkles set in

** in consideration of future technology

You'll want to get started early then:
http://secondlife.com

[Megan]

You'll want to get started early then:
http://secondlife.com

I already have an account in that game, been playing it since summer of 2008, I was a virtual stripper and made some good cash, but spent it all on the clothes lol.

Haven't been playing lately since I am expecting mycosm.com to be release, but no chance of that in the near future.

[Carlita]

Megan ... have you considered what it actually feels like to be an extraordinarily beautiful woman ... or how men react to seeing a woman who looks like that? I write books that are published around the world and readers often contact me, just to talk about the books and (hopefully!) why they like them. Last year I was contacted online by a young woman who'd read a couple of my books and had questions about the characters and stories. We exchanged a couple of messages and the she told me she was a model. Specifically, she'd been a Playboy centrefold, and was now into more conventional fashion and advertising work.

This girl was unbelievably beautiful. Off-the-chart. And the effect of her looks was incredible. Her life consisted of being hit on, all the time, wherever she went ... by women as well as men. One of the reasons we got on very well was that I didn't hit on her, but actually took her seriously (I never explained exactly WHY I didn't hit on her ... we never got THAT close!!). It turned out she was incredibly smart, very original thinking, very funny, but 99.99% of people never found out about that - or even gave a ->-bleeped-<- - because all they ever wanted to do was shag her. She knew this and was very cynical about it and very disillusioned.

She could also, just like those wives of Roger Vadim that Cindy J was talking about, be surprisingly insecure about her appearance. She had very, very conflicted feelings about the enormous gap between how she was perceived and how she actually felt about herself. In some respects she was incredibly confident, because she knew exactly the effect her beauty had on everyone around her. In other respects, she was crippled inside.

My point is, sure, it's great to be good-looking. But there is a price to be paid for being really beautiful. From everything you've read, I get the feeling that this obsession with being beautiful is almost a way of covering up much deeper uncertainties about how you really feel, or even what you really are. Trust me, beauty won't help you figure any of that out.

So get your head straight. Then worry about your pretty face!