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Started by sarahb, April 07, 2010, 10:12:02 AM

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sarahb

I slept well again last night. The pain has dramatically decreased since the stent was removed Monday. It's not even in the front of my mind anymore at all. The schedule and making sure everything is done is the only thing I think of.

So I had scheduled to stay here in Montreal until Sunday, but plans have changed. I broke down this morning after thinking of having to be in a hotel, alone, with nobody there to help me. I have none of the supplies I'd need, and would not be able to fathom getting everything done. So this morning I called and got my flight changed to tommorrow afternoon. It was supposed to be a few hundred dollars to change it, but I told them I had surgery and I was able to get a medical discount, which brought it down to about $60. I also asked for assistance at the airport and will now have a wheelchair and first dibs when getting on the plane. That'll really help out, since it's still hard to walk. It's getting better and better by the day though.

Coming up to the end of the stay it was starting to get a little scary, knowing that I'll have to manage all of this without the constant help of the nurses and staff here. But now that it's tommorrow, I'm getting more anxious to just be home, see my boyfriend again, and be in the comfort of my own home. It's going to be a long day tommorrow. The last leg of this journey. But I think overall it'll be nice to be out and about and start getting back to a normal life. It worked out good though with the flight change, since instead of having a 2 hour flight followed by a 5 1/2 hour flight, now I have a 3 hour flight followed by a 4 hour flight. The flights are still long, but I was dreading being in an airplane coach seat for 5 1/2 hours. It would have been torture.

Anyways, there's really nothing else to talk about today, so I'll leave it at that.

~Sarah
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Kristyn

Quote from: SarahR on April 07, 2010, 10:12:02 AM
I slept well again last night. The pain has dramatically decreased since the stent was removed Monday. It's not even in the front of my mind anymore at all. The schedule and making sure everything is done is the only thing I think of.

So I had scheduled to stay here in Montreal until Sunday, but plans have changed. I broke down this morning after thinking of having to be in a hotel, alone, with nobody there to help me. I have none of the supplies I'd need, and would not be able to fathom getting everything done. So this morning I called and got my flight changed to tommorrow afternoon. It was supposed to be a few hundred dollars to change it, but I told them I had surgery and I was able to get a medical discount, which brought it down to about $60. I also asked for assistance at the airport and will now have a wheelchair and first dibs when getting on the plane. That'll really help out, since it's still hard to walk. It's getting better and better by the day though.

Coming up to the end of the stay it was starting to get a little scary, knowing that I'll have to manage all of this without the constant help of the nurses and staff here. But now that it's tommorrow, I'm getting more anxious to just be home, see my boyfriend again, and be in the comfort of my own home. It's going to be a long day tommorrow. The last leg of this journey. But I think overall it'll be nice to be out and about and start getting back to a normal life. It worked out good though with the flight change, since instead of having a 2 hour flight followed by a 5 1/2 hour flight, now I have a 3 hour flight followed by a 4 hour flight. The flights are still long, but I was dreading being in an airplane coach seat for 5 1/2 hours. It would have been torture.

Anyways, there's really nothing else to talk about today, so I'll leave it at that.

~Sarah

I just want to thank you Sarah for posting your account in detail, It will definitely make my journey to Montreal much easier.  I wish you continued success in your recovery and your new life.  Please keep us updated on your progress.

PS.  5.5 hrs flying time?  I thought you were from Southern California?  Does it really take that long?
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Janet_Girl

You last test is upon you, Dear Sarah.  The Fight Home.  But you are headed home.

Soon you will, possible, go the way of Tink and our other Kate and get on with your life and be gone from here.

May the gods bless you with a joyous and prosperous life.

Hugs,
Janet
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kyril

5.5 hours sounds about right for Montreal to SoCal - it's diagonally across the continent.

Best wishes, Sarah, and I'm glad you're doing so well and going to be home soon.


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mmelny

Wow Sarah, time flew so fast (at least for those of us watching/reading your journey )....  Congratulations again, and happy to hear your pain has receded.

Advice for flight... get 2 Valium from the doc's office (take 1 before each flight), along with your regular extra strength pain pills, and enjoy your sleep, urrmm, I mean flight   ;D

Best wishes for happy travels!!!

*huggs*,
Melan

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rejennyrated

Crikey! 3 hours then 4 hours! You must be made of sterner stuff than me. I honestly don't think I could have done that! I wish you a very safe and, as far as possible, very restful journey home. I just hope you don't end up sitting next to some of the people I seem to get on aircraft, often men, who want to tell you their entire life history, while you want to rest.

Good luck Sarah - I will certainly be thinking of you and wishing you much strength for tomorrow.

Jenny x.
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sarahb

Well, my flight here was 3 planes all having about a 2 hour flight time, so that's roughly 6 hours. This one is about 7 hours total, but I'm connecting through Minneapolis this time so that may be the cause of the increase. In any case, I'll get through it one way or another...I have no choice.

Melan - Thanks for the tip, I'll think I'll use it. Time has seemed to slow down here. I feel like I've been here a month, when it hasn't even been two weeks total. I hope the next few weeks go by a bit faster. I suspect they will since I'll be home and have all the wonderous distractions of life. Plus, work starts for me again on Monday (from home) so that'll keep me busy. I just can't wait until it looks normal, it doesn't always hurt, and it's not so bloody. There I go again with the whole waiting thing, lol. We're always waiting for something.

~Sarah
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LordKAT

yup, we spend most of lives in a state of hurry up and wait, seems to make more sense to just enjoy the journey as best we can.  Gratz, girl and safe flight home.
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juliekins

Sarah, make sure to make use of the electric cart with a driver in the Montreal airport. It will wisk you most of the way through the long stretches of the airport.

You can also grab a quick drink in the airport while you are awaiting your flight home. Julie and I took advantage of this, and after 2 weeks in a hospital setting, just sitting down relaxing with a cocktail was like 20 minutes of heaven! We both knew, at that point, that life would be returning to normal.

Best of luck getting back home, and with the remainder of your recovery. Just take it easy. Having the support of your BF and others at home will be great. Good luck, again!
"I don't need your acceptance, just your love"
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Flan

Quote from: SarahR on April 07, 2010, 11:51:56 AM
This one is about 7 hours total, but I'm connecting through Minneapolis this time so that may be the cause of the increase.

I'll apologize in advance for tim pawlenty, the crappy terminal design at MSP, the overpriced tasteless food at the airport, and the "Larry Craig bathroom".

Quote from: juliekins on April 07, 2010, 12:16:05 PMSarah, make sure to make use of the electric cart with a driver in the Montreal airport.

MSP has carts too, and crazy drivers to match. :)
Soft kitty, warm kitty, little ball of fur. Happy kitty, sleepy kitty, purr, purr, purr.
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Kristyn

Quote from: SarahR on April 07, 2010, 11:51:56 AM


Plus, work starts for me again on Monday (from home) so that'll keep me busy.

Yow!!  Where are you going to find the motivation, let alone time for that?  Me. I've decided to take an entire year off which began March 1st.  Of course I'll probably keep my skills up with some freelance work both pre and post-op.
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Suzy

Sarah,

Thanks so much for letting us in on your journey.  You are one brave woman to travel soon soon, but I know it will go well for you.  You have a lot of new horizons spread out before you.  I wish only the best for you.

Kristi
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MsFierce

Quote from: Kristyn on April 07, 2010, 02:10:15 PM
Yow!!  Where are you going to find the motivation, let alone time for that?  Me. I've decided to take an entire year off which began March 1st.  Of course I'll probably keep my skills up with some freelance work both pre and post-op.

Kristyn when are you going to Montreal?
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Kristyn

Quote from: MsGiselle on April 07, 2010, 02:42:34 PM
Kristyn when are you going to Montreal?

Sept 15, hunni bunni!  Like you I can't wait!  My original date was July something, but I would have been the last surgery before they shut down for the summer and I wasn't too comfortable with that.  I then rescheduled for Aug 31, then changed it to Sept 15 in the hopes that my Mom would feel good enough to come with me--she's so coolio!! :laugh:
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MsFierce

Quote from: Kristyn on April 07, 2010, 02:55:11 PM
Sept 15, hunni bunni!  Like you I can't wait!  My original date was July something, but I would have been the last surgery before they shut down for the summer and I wasn't too comfortable with that.  I then rescheduled for Aug 31, then changed it to Sept 15 in the hopes that my Mom would feel good enough to come with me--she's so coolio!! :laugh:

Oh okay ;D. I can't wait, I been told I'm one of the last people before the vacation. My mom can't come though and I'm sad. but I'm bringing a friend to go with me.
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Kristyn

Quote from: MsGiselle on April 07, 2010, 02:58:22 PM
Oh okay ;D. I can't wait, I been told I'm one of the last people before the vacation. My mom can't come though and I'm sad. but I'm bringing a friend to go with me.

Sorry 'bout your Mom--but at least you'll have someone there.  I'm looking forward to your updates!!! ;D
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MsFierce

Quote from: Kristyn on April 07, 2010, 03:02:26 PM
Sorry 'bout your Mom--but at least you'll have someone there.  I'm looking forward to your updates!!! ;D

My updates are gonna be funny. I'm eternally 12 ;D. I plan on having fun. I have a lil tiny crush on Dr.Brassard :o I think he is just so cute.
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Tippe

Hello Sarah,

first of all I'd like to thank you for posting such detailed information about your progress. I've been almost fulltime for nearly three years, but am still early in the process figuring out how many physical procedures my transition will involve. In my country it is extremely difficult to find personal accounts about surgery and life post it, with only 2-3 people being allowed to have it each year. Finding this forum and your posts have been very enlightening to me.

Thanks for sharing and good luck in your new life

--
Tippe
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Nigella

Thanks again Sarah, its been invaluable, have a safe journey home and remember to take care of yourself and don't do to much. If you are like me I can't sit still for one moment so I have no idea what I will be like when its my turn this year.

The best is still yet to come.

Hugs

Stardust
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Deanna_Renee

Sarah, have a safe and enjoyable 7 hour flight home (if such a thing is possible). I'm sure it will be wonderful to return home to familiar surroundings and be with loved ones. I'm so happy for you.  :icon_bunch: :icon_bunch:

I am also very grateful for your honesty, openness, and vivid descriptions of this phase of your journey. One day, I will follow in your footsteps and will plan to also share my story as I go through the steps so that those who come after me can be likewise inspired.

Deanna

Oh, and Valerie and Kate, I can hardly wait to hear about your adventures as well. So many reaching the SRS line - it is like watching the finish line of a marathon. I wish you all the best.
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