Savage Love: 4/28/10

[Shana A]

 Savage Love: 4/28/10
Written by Dan Savage   
Monday, 26 April 2010 15:10

http://www.hartfordadvocate.com/savage-love/savage-love-4-28-10

I'm a straight girl who started dating this straight guy six months ago. Three months in, he told me he is a crossdresser. I'm a fairly open-minded person, and I was curious what it would be like to have sex with him dressed. It brought our sex life to a new level that is very pleasing to both of us. The problem is that I find myself very sexually attracted to him dressed. I'm not as attracted to him when he isn't dressed, and the sex isn't as exciting for me. He said he's happy to dress for sex, and although I like that, now I'm afraid of getting into a routine where we will only enjoy sex in that way and down the road I may grow tired of the dressed sex and crave a regular guy. I think we both lower our inhibitions when we have sex while he's dressed. I guess I don't understand why.

-Confused And Curious

[tekla]

Asking for my opinion on vajazzling, VAG, is like asking a vegan for her opinion on the wallpaper in a steak house. I'm simply too revolted by what's on the menu to take much notice of the decor.

Got to love Dan.

[kyril]

Asking for my opinion on vajazzling, VAG, is like asking a vegan for her opinion on the wallpaper in a steak house. I'm simply too revolted by what's on the menu to take much notice of the decor.

Got to love Dan.

What do you expect when you ask a gay man for his opinion on vulva decoration? Hell, I've got one attached to me and I'm still 100% with him.

[tekla]

He's had to tone it way down as his readership has expanded, but good to see flashes of the old Dan come out now and again.  I do miss the days when he could get away with saying "If there is a god in heaven both you and your idiot boyfriend are sterile."