Orgasms

[Ryan]

Detail ahead. Don't read if you're a pussy

There's supposedly a big difference between a male and female orgasm. Plenty of research suggests that female orgasms are far superior.
I'm quite interested to know how other transguys would describe their orgasms. And if you're on T, have your orgasms changed? Does it worry you that your orgasms might not be as enjoyable after T?

Mine have definitely changed since starting testosterone.
Now, they're less intense. The sensation is focused completely in the genitals, whereas it used to be a full body sensation. I used to feel relaxed for longer afterwards, but now within a minute or two I'm back to normal. It takes far less time to reach climax, and far less time to recover and be able to masturbate again afterwards.
Generally, I'm far happier with my orgasms. They definitely don't feel as good as before, but I'm having more of them.

[Carson]

I have definitely noticed a difference. Pre-T they were, like you said, more of a full body experience and more intense(too intense for my taste). Also it used to take me awhile to be ready to "go again" lol now give me a few minutes 5 at the max and I am ready to go again where as before I was too sensitive for awhile to even enjoy any kind of touching "down there". And they are definitely more genital centered now but I think they are more enjoyable now(at almost 5 months on T) than pre-T.

[Squirrel698]

Strange to hear you two say that.  I just started on T last week and only using a small amount of gel so I don't know if my opinion counts yet.  However I got to say that they seem to be much stronger then they were before.  Taking maybe a little bit longer to get there and longer to recover. 

Perhaps once T really starts to work with my system they will change.  It's possible the reason they are more intense now is because I'm so high on life having finally made a decision about myself.

[Carson]

Strange to hear you two say that.  I just started on T last week and only using a small amount of gel so I don't know if my opinion counts yet.  However I got to say that they seem to be much stronger then they were before.  Taking maybe a little bit longer to get there and longer to recover. 

Perhaps once T really starts to work with my system they will change.  It's possible the reason they are more intense now is because I'm so high on life having finally made a decision about myself.

haha everything seems better when you first get on T.

[Nygeel]

I'm pre-T and on a rare occasion I'm okay with receiving penetration. The orgasms are different in intensity and everything. It takes me forever to orgasm no matter what I do solo or with a partner (typically 20 minutes to an hour) and I don't have multiples.

I'm really hoping that T will make it easier to orgasm, make me more comfortable with my genitals and just...make what I've got work better.

[Silver]

I never got that full-body thing everyone talks about. I guess I'll write about the changes when I get on T.

[Nero]

I'm completely unable to go a second time now. Before I could sometimes after a few minutes. They're now on more of a schedule. And believe or not, I'm actually considerably less horny and my sex drive is a lot more manageable and even. Once a day and I'm good. Before the average was 3x a day, with a completely crazy week once a month where I was completely insatiable and could go 10 to infinity. I'm happy with this part though. Feels much more controllable and comfortable than the frantic ups and downs of before.

I haven't really noticed the loss of the full body experience, but now that I think of it, I think I have lost some of it. I can't recall feeling the "uterus flip flops" or whatever they are for some time.   

[Silver]

I can't recall feeling the "uterus flip flops" or whatever they are for some time.   

(Shudder.)

[Nero]

(Shudder.)

lol

Also, I have noticed myself trying to space them out, like trying to go a day or two without to make them more intense. So, yeah I guess I have noticed they are less intense and satisfying than before.  It's odd, T is supposed to all this amazing stuff sexually.

[Elijah3291]

I haven't really noticed the loss of the full body experience, but now that I think of it, I think I have lost some of it. I can't recall feeling the "uterus flip flops" or whatever they are for some time.   

I dont think my orgasms are full body.. but I dont really know.. i will take note next time lol.

what about uterus flip flops?

[Devin87]

I've been on T for a little over 3 weeks, and yes, I've noticed them getting less intense lately.  Then again, that might be because I'm just playing with myself so much I'm getting desensitized...    I never really cared for orgasms myself-- it was the moment right before the orgasm I loves and then I just stopped the second my orgasm started.  Now that moment is just... nothing...  And I used to be able to have several orgasms in one session but now I can really only have one.  Again, I'm not sure if I'm just overkilling it right now or if it's the t, but I've definitely noticed a difference.

[Miniar]

Always had boy-orgasms apparently.

But since starting T, well...
The changes caused by T are such that I've had to sort of "re-learn" how to handle my downstairs equipment.
See, while the result is the same, getting there seems to be a different process.
Sometimes, I just can't get there at all.
Is rather... difficult... to deal with actually.
Finally getting my downstairs equipment to "kinda" look like it's "supposed to" and the damned thing doesn't always "work"?

[myles]

Mine are actually more intense now. I have been on T over a year and am quite happy with the change in that department.
Myles

[xTwoOfHeartsx]

Yeah, my orgasms totally changed after T..
Things I noticed:
It's actually much easier to reach orgasm now.. takes anywhere between 2 and 8 minutes, sometimes less.. whereas before it took at least 15 minutes..
And, my orgasms are much more intense now, I find.
One other thing is.. before, I wasn't able to have more than one orgasm a day.. and now, I could have several a day. Haha.

[jimmymot]

I never thought about this. Interesting!

I am a crazy sex fiend. I can have like 10 orgasms in a row, and it doesn't take me anytime at all. I can orgasm with or without penetration too. But they're not full body for me, they've never been that intense, which is probably why I have so many in a row so easily.

I have a weird relationship with sex. Sometimes I want to die when I orgasm because they never satisfy me. The feeling right before I have one is better than the actual orgasm.

I also have very horrible sexual fantasies though which may have to do with it.

hey, that raises a question. if I have some issues with sex, like obsessive paraphillias, could it be potentially dangerous for me to be on T??

[elvistears]

jimmy: i have some "horrible" fantasies too (violent etc).  i never thought about t and that, but i don't think they'd become more than fantasies.

I've never actually had an orgasm.  At least I don't think so.  I think I get to that just before part, which I do like. I feel pretty detached from myself during sex.  I only really get off on doing stuff to other people.

Getting a packer kinda woke up my crotch tho, which is awesome.

[Elijah3291]

jimmy: i have some "horrible" fantasies too (violent etc).  i never thought about t and that, but i don't think they'd become more than fantasies.

I've never actually had an orgasm.  At least I don't think so.  I think I get to that just before part, which I do like. I feel pretty detached from myself during sex.  I only really get off on doing stuff to other people.

Getting a packer kinda woke up my crotch tho, which is awesome.

are you a masochist.. sadist? You could be. which isnt a bad thing. my boyfriend and i are into that..

and I know what you mean about the packer.. i tend to not wear it.. b/c  having it sitting there just turns me on.. the weight of it lol.

[elvistears]

Bit o both, depending on who it's with! Some people I like to dominate, some people I like to be dominated by.

Yeah the first day I had the packer was nuts!  Lol nuts.  I couldn't stop rubbing it under the desk at work.  I feel ten trillions times better about sex as a dude.  I think T will help even more.

[Elijah3291]

Bit o both, depending on who it's with! Some people I like to dominate, some people I like to be dominated by.

Yeah the first day I had the packer was nuts!  Lol nuts.  I couldn't stop rubbing it under the desk at work.  I feel ten trillions times better about sex as a dude.  I think T will help even more.

i cant wait until T gives me a dick.. a little dick.. but I cant stand not have anything to.. hold lol.

but yea.. I dont mind having 'female' sex.. but then again, my bf respects me as male.. and we just use what I have..

[Ryan]

Very interesting to see that everyone is so different.

I'm on about 3-5 wanks a day at the moment. Pre-T it was an average of 1 a week. My sex drive has increased, and because I can orgasm far easier it seems worth the effort now.
I remember when the sex drive started to increase and it only took 6 seconds and I was finished. HAH! Not even kidding.
My sensitivity has also changed. Cause my dick is bigger its started rubbing on my pants and become quite insensitive to touch in many places. As soon as I wake him up, it's fine. Haha.

jimmymot: Maybe not a great idea to admit to downloading certain types of porn on a public forum.