Agreed on the difference between violent fantasies and violent actions. They are two very different things
In fact, the term "violent" can cover a range of activities, depending on your viewpoint. My partner and myself have been into BDSM for a number of years and our activites might be seen by some as "violent", whereas we would see them as the most trusting, loving thing that two people can do together. There is absolutely no hate or aggression involved.
Anyway, back on topic, this is fascintaing that T can change an orgasm from female pattern to male. Personally, I will miss the wonderful full body sensation, but c'est la vie.
And accord03, you already have your mini (or micro) dick. It is your clitoris and it already erects when you are turned on. It is just that we don't always notice it. It does get bigger on T, though.