Orgasms

[Nygeel]

Early on in my acceptance process, I became obsessed with the idea of being able to ejaculate.

To the extent that I went out and found a realistic dildo that actually ejaculates.
The novelty eventually wore off, but it was fun while it lasted.

I plan on getting an ejaculating dildo. I won't fill it with anything like ejaculate...I'll fill it with vodka and have people blow me until I ejaculate the vodka into their mouths. I have deemed this a money shot.

[Muddy]

Ooh, the added benefit of it being a sterile fluid!

[kyril]

I plan on getting an ejaculating dildo. I won't fill it with anything like ejaculate...I'll fill it with vodka and have people blow me until I ejaculate the vodka into their mouths. I have deemed this a money shot.

Filing this under "things to do when I've come to terms with my body." Also, "ways to have fun with being FTM."

[Xren]

Nah, mine didn't change at all when I was on T--same sort of point-focused twitch/throb feeling as before.  I've never had full-body ones either, and in a way I wouldn't want to.  The idea sorta creeps me out.

[TheAetherealMeadow]

I hope you guys don't mind me butting into your thread, but I actually heard that male and female orgasms actually feel exactly the same. I recall reading a study where experts read thousands of descriptions of what an orgasm feels like and they could not differentiate between which ones were written by males or females.

Anywho, since I have "male" parts and I'm on spiro, I guess I may as well give some input for comparison. Mine are usually not full body or overwhelming (once in a while I do get those though) but I've noticed ever since starting spiro, my desire to masturbate has went down, but when I do, my orgasms are somewhat more intense, and it takes more effort to get there- the reverse of what some of you guys seem to be experiencing. Perhaps testosterone has some effect on orgasm where it's easier to achieve but less intense. It's pretty interesting- I think some scientist person should do a study about this. 

[Ryan]

I'm mostly referring to a feeling of warmth and energy that spreads throughout your body (simultaneous with the orgasmic contractions) of varying intensity that acts as the most significant aspect of the orgasm. I only started having those after starting T.

Same here. Although that mostly stopped for me after starting T. I don't really miss it though.

[LordKAT]

Then you haven't had one that makes almost every muscle in your body tense up for a time and after you are almost out of it for a time?

[Ryan]

Then you haven't had one that makes almost every muscle in your body tense up for a time and after you are almost out of it for a time?

No, I have. They were great, but I found them far too much effort to achieve to be worth it. I had a very low sex drive and found it hard to orgasm.
So even though my previous orgasms were better, I prefer the less intense and more frequent ones that I get now.

[zombiesarepeaceful]

The whole body thing has gone away almost entirely already. My gf talks about it happening to her and that's peachy...but I don't miss it. Its more dick concentrated now.

[Radar]

Concerning the can females ejaculate question the answer is yes. Women have a version of a prostate called the Skene's gland. When this gland is stimulated it can cause ejaculation. Studies have not only shown this to be true but the make-up of a female's ejaculation is just like a man's fluids except without the sperm.

Remember- all fetuses start out as female until the Y chromosome kicks in. Therefore all body parts in a man will be on a women except sometimes as different organs (dick=clitoris prostate= Skene's gland).

[xxaussiexx]

After being on T, like most of you guys, i'm able to achieve orgasms quite quickly but can't go more than once as it gets RLY sensitive and painful!  I think it was Radar who mentioned the 'Aching Cock Syndrome'! A great way to describe it.  Sometimes I have to push past the sensitivity and pain as the T can make me very horny and therefore, i have to do something about it otherwise it drives me insane!

With orgasms now, they're more genital focused than before.  Pre-T, the sensation kinda spread throughout my body but not, its concentrated in one spot...

[Lachlann]

Ugh, aching cock syndrome, I hate that. Sometimes I don't even get off properly and it begins to ache.

I don't think I've really had much of an orgasm since being on T, and if it is one, then it's pretty weak.

[PandaValentine]

I love this thread, what an interesting topic. I find with orgasms there was a change. I used to be really sensitive after the first orgasm, now it's like nothing, I could go again easily given a few minutes rest. My orgasms have always been something I could make in a few minutes or far longer depending on my interest at the time. I find they are better now though, because I really let them take control, I find they are actually more intense. Admittedly my first was probably the best I've ever had, no competition, but since then they don't really compare to the ones on T. After orgasms pre T, I would just carry on doing what I do, I didn't really need rest or anything since they didn't drain me of energy. Since I've been on T I can't do that. If I don't rest a bit I feel a bit dizzy trying to stand on my feet. The orgasms also really cause my heart to race now. I also feel more comfortable with myself on T so it might be what makes the orgasms better. Either way, they are awesome. I never thought I could feel this way about them, pre T, they just weren't as important.

[insideontheoutside]

Whoa. Ancient thread is ancient!

But now that it's dug up, how could I resist a thread titled, "Orgasms"?

Anyway, this is an interesting thread so I might as well add to it.

I think the big O has gotten better in the fact that I've learned more about myself and what does it for me over time. Early on it was like this thing I could barely control. It was like jumping in a race car and holding on and even when you first got in you were only mere moments away from the finish line. I've never, ever been a multiple person. My absolute record was 3 in a 24 hour time period and I had to really work for that last one. I won't even go for 2 any more. It just doesn't float my boat - too much effort without enough pay off.

As for the actual physical way I feel ... if I edge it, it's usually more intense (or if I hold off getting off for days). Normally I just feel this building feeling like below my belly button that slowly makes it's way lower. The only "whole body" stuff I've ever felt is this muscle lock up type thing that happens right before the blast off. It's this crazy tension. It might be helpful to note that I never had the "normal" female set up. To me, I've always had a dick because it looks like one and acts like one (except for the ejaculation and being able to pee out of it parts - major bummer, but I got over it). So it might be a little different but it probably similar to guys who have had a lot of growth on HRT. I still do get uber relaxed afterward. Also, usually get over-sensitive ... sometimes so much that it actually aches/feels weird for a short time.

I can still function afterward (you know, like put clothes on and go to the grocery store kind of function - not "let's go for round 2" function, cause yeah that was never a super viable option for me) but I'd much prefer just to chill out for awhile or go to sleep.

[Arch]

I don't remember running across this thread way back when.

Unless I jack off more than a couple of times in one day, my orgasms are more intense than they used to be. I love that. And if I go a couple of days in between, my orgasms are much more intense.

My sexual response is mostly focused in that part of the body, and afterward I am much more likely to just get up and go do something else. I often used to doze off with my partner. Of course, I'm single now.

Sometimes I have a hard time sort of getting started because of dysphoria with that part of my body.

I miss being able to get excited from other body sensations. I had a special top surgery procedure expressly so I would run no risk of losing nipple sensation, but now my responses have changed so much that I only get so much out of that part of my body. I had surgery only a few months after I started HRT, so maybe it took a little while for my brain and my responses to rewire.

I'm not sure whether it's from T, more comfort with myself, or a combination of factors, but I am more interested in intense feelings, like discomfort/pain, than I used to be. This also causes problems because I tend to judge what I'm doing and feel ashamed afterward. But it also can give me some of my most intense orgasms.

P.S. I can jack off maybe five times in one day now. My record was eight. I had started HRT not long before, and my partner was out of town.

[N.Chaos]

I plan on getting an ejaculating dildo. I won't fill it with anything like ejaculate...I'll fill it with vodka and have people blow me until I ejaculate the vodka into their mouths. I have deemed this a money shot.

This is the single most amazing sentence I've ever read. Nygeel, seriously man, my night has been made.

I don't know if my input counts at all (I'm not on T) but mine have gotten a lot better since I started having sex with a guy, as opposed to my girlfriend. It used to take me forever to get off with her, when me and him are doing it I get off in 10-15 minutes. And I tend to make a mess (TMI? I don't know. In advance I'm sorry). Not sure if I've ever had the full body thing either, all I know is that I love getting off because it seems like my mind shuts off and everythings just awesome.

[insideontheoutside]

This is the single most amazing sentence I've ever read. Nygeel, seriously man, my night has been made.

I don't know if my input counts at all (I'm not on T) but mine have gotten a lot better since I started having sex with a guy, as opposed to my girlfriend. It used to take me forever to get off with her, when me and him are doing it I get off in 10-15 minutes. And I tend to make a mess (TMI? I don't know. In advance I'm sorry). Not sure if I've ever had the full body thing either, all I know is that I love getting off because it seems like my mind shuts off and everythings just awesome.

I concur that was a pretty awesome statement by Nygeel.

I also get that "mind shut off" thing going on. Like nothing matters for that very small amount of time.

[N.Chaos]

I love it. I wish I could actually get myself off because of it but 9 times outta 10 I can't.

[Nathan.]

I never got the whole body thing, my orgasms haven't really changed that much. What has changed is how long I can mastubate for, pre T I could reach orgasm really fast and them my dick would be way too sensitive to touch and I couldn't wank again for a quite a while but now I can normally last longer, my dick still gets too sensitive to touch but only for a minute then I can wank again  I definitely enjoy wanking more now, I used to be frustrated at how quick it was and the orgasm didn't feel as good as it does now.

[Tad]

For me orgasms have really intensified. They feel way better then before, and the longer I'm on T, the better they get. Never had that full body thing, still don't.

hmmm. Refractory period has definately shrunk. Used to be I'd have to wait an hour or two.. now sometimes 15 minutes is long enough.

As for sensitivity - I had no sensitivity pre T. Now it's sensitive as hell. ->-bleeped-<-ing hurts.. but meh. Just be careful about where I touch..

Time to get off.. I used to be able to get off in 15 seconds if I wanted.. or make it last out to 15 minutes. For the first month and a half on T.. it was taking me 5 minutes minimum - fursterating when you want to get off fast.. but with the latest growth (and the latest peak in pleasure lol).. time to get off is dropping down again.