In a relationship?

[accord03]

How many of you are in a relationship? How many of you want to get married and start a family?

I know I've posted alot of topics but come on, wake up  Starting being active people.

[Carson]

I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for over 2 years. We eventually plan on getting married and starting a family.

[Jeatyn]

Not in a relationship but I am pregnant....family but no relationship, works for me

[accord03]

Are you a FTM? How did you get pregnant? If you dont mind me asking.

[Shadowlyc]

In a relationship for three months now. 

[cynthialee]

Are you a FTM? How did you get pregnant? If you dont mind me asking.

Looks at accord03 oddly....Didn't get sex ed in your school?

[Greg]

Looks at accord03 oddly....Didn't get sex ed in your school?

I was under the impression that when you identify as FTM you have to get a "CONDEMNED" sign across the vagina .

[Papillon]

LOL Greg!

I'm married for 13 years.  If I progress with this and my husband can adjust to it, we will need to divorce and rejoin in a civil partnership.  Yup, things are going the right way in UK law, but there is still a LONG way further to go.

[cynthialee]

I was under the impression that when you identify as FTM you have to get a "CONDEMNED" sign across the vagina .

funny I dont think all your brothers got that memo..

[Hurtfulsplash]

I was under the impression that when you identify as FTM you have to get a "CONDEMNED" sign across the vagina .

LOL

I've heard that after awhile on HRT you become sterile. Maybe that's what he means.

[Arch]

My relationship just ended this past year, and I'm not looking for a new one just yet. And I'm not particularly hopeful, mainly because of my preop genitals. I don't know when I'll be able to afford surgery down there, and I'm not thrilled with the options anyway.

So for now I'm playing the field, and I don't know if I'll ever actively seek out another relationship. If it happens, it happens. I think the best thing for me to do is to assume that I'll probably be alone for the rest of my life and make my peace with that and be happy that way. If nothing else, this attitude will make me more attractive to would-be suitors.

[VampyreAri]

I was under the impression that when you identify as FTM you have to get a "CONDEMNED" sign across the vagina .

Best. Comment. Ever. I'm quite proud of my condemned sign though.

As for the topic at hand... Been in a relationship for... 10months as of this upcoming Tuesday...
Married? In a couple of years. Family? Not for about a decade or so.

[Osiris]

I would love to get married and have kids. I look forward to being a husband and father and eventually the grumpy ol' grand-dad.

I'm not currently in a relationship. Looking to get my own stuff sorted so that I'll be a good partner to have.

[sneakersjay]

Looks at accord03 oddly....Didn't get sex ed in your school?

LOL Took the words right out of my mouth!


Jay

[Arch]

Oh, and don't have kids, don't want kids...for years I had people telling me that this attitude would change. Now that I'm visibly male, nobody is at all surprised when I indicate my preference to remain childless.

This issue was quite a source of tension in my previous relationship, the one before the one I just came out of. I was living as a female then, in an ostensibly straight relationship with a man. People at work sometimes asked me if my partner and I planned to have kids. When I indicated that there was a difference of opinion on whether that would happen, the other party invariably said something like, "I see, you want 'em, he doesn't...I get it."

Apparently, all women want children and all men resist. It's nice to know, now that I'm living as a man, that I so neatly fit that stereotype.

[Luc]

I was married for 2 1/2 years to an MtF woman who treated me like dirt.

Now, thankfully, we've been separated for almost a year and a half, and are amidst a divorce. My current girlfriend and I have been together for about 5 1/2 months now, and living together for the past 3 months. I'm just waiting on the money to buy her a ring so I can propose. We want kids... plenty of them... and she's willing to go through the motions so we can have our own genetic children, though we'll adopt as well.

SD

[Jeatyn]

hahaha loving the replies I sparked I was just about to start hormones when I found out if that's what the question was in reference to

[Lachlann]

I was in a relationship for about 7 years, the last 3 years being on and off. She was OK with the transgender thing, it actually made her realize she was pansexual, however she ended up being disrespectful and insensitive later on. She wanted to put me in skirts and do drag king shows, and it's not that I have an issue with drag kings and ftms who choose to do it... but personally if someone tells me I should be a drag king I kind of think they don't see me as a man. I guess it just goes to show it's not always the length of the relationship, they also have to be understanding, and sometimes it doesn't matter the amount of years you are together they might not ever understand.

As for kids, I don't even know. I can't see myself as a father right now and I think it'd be irresponsible to have kids in my current condition. Maybe later on, but right now it'd be a bad move.

[Linus]

I've been with my g/f for nearly 4 years now. She just finished her Master's degree and went off to California (I'll be following once she has a job and place -- we have an old cat that I don't want to impose on her parents' place). We haven't fully decided whether we'll do a full ceremony for marriage but we planning to have some kind of commitment ceremony as well as a gaggle of kids, kidlets and furrkids.

I'm saving up my sleeps now because I know I'll never sleep again once our family gets going. 

[Ryan]

I'm not in a relationship. I suck at meeting girls lol.
I think I would like to start a family in the future. Way, way in the future.

Plenty of transguys feel comfortable with penetrative sex in the bonus hole. I don't, but I've seen plenty that enjoy it.
As for T making you sterile, that's not quite true. You shouldn't start T if you plan to get pregnant, but there have been a few guys out there who have been on T for years and have gotten pregnant.