I'm not attracted to women, but I have things I like about them that I don't consider objectifying. Extrapolating, yes, but I'm mostly thinking of my girlfriends, anyways. Also, both men and women are sexual objects in one shape or form, otherwise we as a species wouldn't continue on. Being sexually attracted to someone is automatically objectifying that person, but that does not mean you cannot love them for their other traits. Attraction first, love second. (I sometimes have love first then attraction, sometimes the other way around.)
EDIT: a ton of embarrassing typos fixed :p