Dancing.

[notyouraverageguy]

Do any of you like to dance?
If so, what type of dancing do you do?

Im pretty sure there's a difference between the way a male &female dance.
And no matter how hard I try, I feel like I dance like a female.

Is it just me, or do you feel like you'd out yourself if you'd dance?
:/

[Nygeel]

I lean like a cholo. Elbows up, side to side el-elbows up, side to side.

I always dance awkward and uncomfortably so I tend to not dance.

[notyouraverageguy]

Hahaha, nice one.
I find it easiest to just two step.
I feel awkward too, but I like moving to the beat.

[zombiesarepeaceful]

I'm an entertainer at a gay bar, so yeah I dance
But not too provocatively...just lip sync and dance, like kings do.
Once I pass better I'll have no problem with dancing like a gay boy though. I just don't cause I don't want to look not male while I do.

[Farm Boy]

I don't dance.  Partly because I don't know how and I'd rather not embarrass myself, and partly because I've just never had the desire to learn.  I don't know that my "dancing" would make me appear male or female, just like a fool.  lol

[notyouraverageguy]

But I think gay boys dance wayy different than females in general.

Hmm...




Lol @ farm boy, that's what dancing is all about. Just having fun.

[Farm Boy]

Not my kind of fun.  My idea of fun is sitting in the library all day, reading.

I have to say though, that I did notice a difference between the dancing styles of the guys vs the girls in my times of crowd watching...

EDIT:

[kyril]

If I try to dance like a guy I look like an epileptic robot. If I try to dance like a girl I look like a lesbian stripper. So I mostly don't do much at all, just stand there and sway like an uncomfortable straight guy.

[notyouraverageguy]

Lol
Well to each his own.


Hmm,
I wonder what it is...




@kyril
Haha!
Or just stand there &have everyone dance around you, I do that sometimes.

[Konnor]

Lol, I do the "uncomfortable straight guy" thing too, even though I'm gay. I kinda nod my head and sway. I can grind at the clubs but that's about it lol.

[Squirrel698]

Unfortunately I don't get out to much to clubs where there might be a chance to dance in public.  At home I do a lot of hip thrusting and hip swinging and raising my arms up and down as I listen to my ipod.  I enjoy watching guys do a dance that includes all of that so I just imitate it in an extremely uncoordinated way. 

[no_id]

I love to dance, and I used to dance very feminine to the extend of claiming podia's in skimpy clothing. It was a fun, roleplay-like kind of thing to me back then and I'll admit the free drinks were great. Nevertheless, didn't want to dance like that (feminine) anymore and so I started observing guys at the club, their moves, what beat they danced to (chicks tend to move more - two moves a beat), and basically just started copying that. It's a bit less energetic, but more stamina to thrive on. 😉

[insanitylives]

Ummmmm.... yeah. I don't dance.

It's generally a bad idea to get me to try too, because I end up looking like a stripper, so....

[notyouraverageguy]

I guess I need to go stalk some guys then, to watch &learn... but im not rly good at that.

I end up looking like a stripper, so....

Haha 😀

[VampyreAri]

I guess I need to go stalk some guys then, to watch &learn... but im not rly good at that.

This is what the internet is for! Haha but really, you can do all your people watching online. xD Just search like 'guys clubbing' or something on youtube and you'll come up with a ton of how-to videos. The internet has everything.

[Greg]

I'd love to be able to ballroom dance, especially the Tango since it has the best suit . As for club/party dancing I just look embarassing. I have absolutely no clue what sort of movements I should be making.

[kyle_lawrence]

I love to dance, and I used to dance very feminine to the extend of claiming podia's in skimpy clothing. It was a fun, roleplay-like kind of thing to me back then and I'll admit the free drinks were great.

Haha... I used to to the same thing.  Fishnets, plaid mini-skirt, knee high hooker boots, and tank tops with a padded bra.  Scary almost. I was usually VIP (cause the bouncers thought giving us passes would get them something) and dancing on the platforms got free drinks. Saying I was a lesbian was worth a round of shots sometimes.  I could never do the same thing now though.

I took dance classes for years, so I can dance well when I want to, but it was a lot of ballet, so I have trouble with looking to graceful when I try now.

[V M]

If it's any consolation or not... I love to dance

But when I was younger people told me I dance like a girl. This went over real well since I thought I was being quite the guy at the time 

Now I'm getting old and wish I could dance as much as I'd like to  😛

[Devin87]

I just dance like at parties and clubs and stuff, nothing organized.  When I was in middle and high school I was told I dance too much like a guy (more abrupt movements, more upper body than lower body, more pelvis thrust type movements and less booty shaking, etc).  I used to be really self-conscious about it, but now it's working for me.   

[Jeatyn]

I used to love going to clubs and dancing the night away

I have no idea how to dance like a guy, I want to sway my hips and all that nonsense, tis more fun that way. Can't wait til I completely pass so dancing like a girl doesn't mean squat.