true life

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I'm currently watching a episode of true life that has a FTM, named Ted. Has anyone else seen this episode before? There is also a MTF named Elle, getting a surgery done to have female genitalia..
I really like that MTV did this, i love watching reality shows like this.

[Elijah3291]

Damian! Ive been watching MTV all day, and im watching this episode right now lol

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me to!
hey one Q, do you HAVE to have a letter to get the top surgery?

[Elijah3291]

95% sure you HAVE to have a letter

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that sucks..lol

[Elijah3291]

I mean, if you can afford the surgery.. therapy wont be much more money

and its best to be on T for a year b4 surgery

[alex408]

ugh my gf and I watched that online the day after I had my surgery.  She just about puked during the part about his surgery.  the doctor just throws one of his boobs into the metal dish

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aha, i can't wait to see that part!

[Elijah3291]

aha, i can't wait to see that part!

thats what I thought

[Arch]

me to!
hey one Q, do you HAVE to have a letter to get the top surgery?

Some surgeons don't insist on a letter from every client, but I'm sure they take all sorts of factors into consideration. And I've heard (don't quote me on this) that Meltzer will waive the letter if your driver's license says "M" on it.

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Some surgeons don't insist on a letter from every client, but I'm sure they take all sorts of factors into consideration. And I've heard (don't quote me on this) that Meltzer will waive the letter if your driver's license says "M" on it.

Ah, i'm not looking for traveling, i just need to find a surgeon in michigan.

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You may want to reconsider that. Surgeons who do good work on trans surgeries are few and far between, and if you are already spending thousands of dollars on this--something that will be a part of your body for the rest of your life--you should consider all of your options, even if it means spending a little extra on travel.

I thought about going to beverly fisher, or whats her name... i do have a friend in mass that i want to see anyway.. just a thought

[Devin87]

I just watched the episode (Comcast has it on demand) and it was a good episode, but I have to say I definately was discouraged with my sister.  She came in and sat down towards the end of it and asked me if Ted was a guy or a girl and I said he was a guy and she's like "is he going to grow his hair out?" and I asked what she meant and she was like "to look more like a girl" and so I said he was born a girl and she's like "oh, so she's a girl who wants to be a guy" and then she proceeded to call him she for the rest of the show even saying at one point "she really looks like a guy" like that was meant to be a compliment or something.  Very discouraging, especially since I'm not out to my family at all.  Doesn't look like I'm going to get much support from her...

[Inkwe Mupkins]

 I saw that episode to. To me it seems that mtfs have it 10 times easier when it comes to actually transitioning. The surgeries are cheaper and give better results. Teds mom is just like my mom kinda. She gave birth to a female and she named me and she ain't changing

[zombiesarepeaceful]

If its a black guy named Ted...I actually know him in person. He's a performer in my area. Haven't seen the episode though. But he posts videos on a collaboration channel for transkings in my area, called OhioTransKingz on Youtube. You should check it out. I'm joining the channel and start posting videos Friday.

[Doveglion]

I haven't actually seen this o.o But I love documentaries and such on trans issues so I'll definitely see if I can find it.

[Inkwe Mupkins]

Thats what I meant surgically. But after they transition I'm sure you wouldn't have a clue they were even trans.

[Inkwe Mupkins]

I'm bio female I have wide shoulders and large ribcage, rather large for a man. I also have a baritone voice and I wear a size 11 mens approx 13 in women in shoes.

[Inkwe Mupkins]

For one I don't wanna be female. But well when I played dress up with my cousin i looked like a man in a dress. But what I'm getting at is that there are bio females built like men so why wouldn't a mtf pass after srs.  When that girl off of true life walked down the sidewalk at the end I would have neve of guessed she was born a man.

[Vancha]

Unfortunately, it is true that testosterone is a more powerful hormone than estrogen, and its effect on the body is not easily (or not at all in some situations) reversible.  So, in technicality, we do have it easier with hormones but MTFs have it better with respects to surgery.  Probably, an MTF who started on blockers prior to puberty has it best, actually.  Hopefully there are more breakthroughs with respects to surgeries for us all.