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Started by karson, June 28, 2010, 12:43:43 PM

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karson

so last night i was out with friends. half i knew before i started transitioning and half after. the half that knew me after i started didnt know that i was biologically female. it was just weird because half was usuing male pronouns and half female but the half that was using female sometimes used male. it was just confusing for me. because i was constantly being like i am a guy then no im a girl to them. has any one else had this thing happen?
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owl

Mostly around my family and friends, my family would call me "she and her" and my friends that didnt know i was bio female used male terms, so it was confusing for both sides, haha
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Al James

yeah when its just me and my partner its male pronouns but outside she cant remember who does and doesnt know so i get female pronouns then when we re out with my mum ive got my partner calling me alex or him and my mum calling me by my birth name and referring to me as she, it gets me some really funny looks and totally does my head in
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elvistears

Yeah my flatmate's sister came around the other day and he was rapid cycling through my birthname, Eli and E.  It was kinda funny.  He's getting better at using male pronouns for me.  My other flatmate who's only new here calls me Miss sometimes in that girly way and it really pisses me off. I've been swallowing it, but I need to say something next time.
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Silver

Lol, one time I went to donate blood at my HS to get out of class/see if I could run after. I was he'd until the lady saw my ID (damn it, undeniably female names) and started using female pronouns. I passed to the other ladies and the guy who brought towels/red betadine/whatever and so it was funny, some were using female pronouns and most using male and nobody seemed to notice the conflict. It was cool, I wasn't even binding that day.

Being TS is a mindf*** on its own though.
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