So, after two-and-a-half years of soul-searching, I have decided to complete what I had started when I had my last "irreversible genital surgery", i.e. orchiectomy. I have come to realize that it's not enough for me that I am accepted as another woman by people around me. I want to look like one completely. So I am going to get my "partial vaginoplasty", since that is the right thing for me, considering my asexuality and my lack of any desire to dilate. I have narrowed down my list of potential surgeons to Dr. Nguyen in OR., Reed in FLA., and Alter in CA.
So far, Reed has been the most helpful and punctual about returning my emails and answering my questions. I like the fact that he is offering a one-stage procedure with a touch up later, if needed.
Alter is also a one-stage SRS surgeon. He is much more expensive than Reed, but his results are probably the most consistent and cosmetically pleasing.
Dr. Nguyen, on the other hand, is a two-stage doctor, but he is the closest to me. I live in Idaho, and his clinic is only a 7-8 hour drive away. The only drawback with Nguyen is having to come back for the second stage.
The more I think about my options, the more I am attracted to the idea of going to Reed. However, I have not had my consultation with him, so I am not sure how likely it is that I will have to fly to Miami for the second time to get a touch up. I don't even know what the this "touch up" entails. Plus, the idea of flying 3000 miles twice just doesn't appeal to me.
I guess I need more information about these doctors, and maybe I will have to get a consultation with all three of them to help me make my final decision on who I'm going to trust with cutting me. I would greatly appreciate anyone's input on this.