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Started by amy2003, July 08, 2010, 09:17:09 PM

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amy2003

So I sent my letter and medical history to Dr. Brassard, and I was given January 19, 2011!  I'm not sure what to think yet.  I don't think it's really sank in fully.  You have to realize, I've been waiting SO LONG for this (or what I think is so long).

So the subject of the post, did you pay the entire amount up front?  I plan on it, but it's very strange to think of writing one, single check that big for something that I've been wanting for so long, when my mindset for years has been, "Save, save, save."  Like I said, I'll pay it, but it's strange.

I was in Montreal about ten times between 1999 & 2003 and after Paris it has always been my favorite city to visit.  My Mom and I have always planned to go a few days early to enjoy the city some before surgery, but now that my date is in the dead of winter I'm not so sure??  I mean, it's going to be cold.

Surgery, surgery, surgery!!! I have to come up with a reason to tell work that I need to take off for two weeks in the middle of winter.  It' hard, because they all know I'm a work-a-holic.

Amy
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Jessica.C

Amy, well it's broken up in 3 payments. I payed my first deposit of 2000 after i got my confirmation package. The second deposit of 2500 is due 2 months before my surgery, then the final balance of 13500 is due 1 month before my surgery date. so its not really all at once. Hope this helps


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Kristyn

Quote from: amy2003 on July 08, 2010, 09:17:09 PM


I was in Montreal about ten times between 1999 & 2003 and after Paris it has always been my favorite city to visit.  My Mom and I have always planned to go a few days early to enjoy the city some before surgery, but now that my date is in the dead of winter I'm not so sure??  I mean, it's going to be cold.

Surgery, surgery, surgery!!! I have to come up with a reason to tell work that I need to take off for two weeks in the middle of winter.  It' hard, because they all know I'm a work-a-holic.



Yes, Montreal is a beautiful city--my fave Canadian city as well.  I had my consult in Jan 2010 and, yes, it was cold.  Those last few days of Jan 2010 were the coldest that Quebec and Ontario had seen in many years.  Fortunately, it is not always like that.  Montreal, however, does get a lot of snow.  Temps seem to fluctuate between bearable and unbearable.

BTW, you'll be needing more than two weeks--more like 6-8 
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sneakersjay

I didn't use Dr. Brassard though he was on my list. 

I paid a deposit of 10% to my surgeon and he wanted the rest in cash the day before surgery.  I ended up paying a mix of dollars and Euros.  Would have been nice if it could have been check or bank transfer.

Jay


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Cindy

amy quote
Surgery, surgery, surgery!!! I have to come up with a reason to tell work that I need to take off for two weeks in the middle of winter.  It' hard, because they all know I'm a work-a-holic.

How about I'm going for a skiing holiday.  And later Ooops I had an accident and had to have surgery and then convalesce for another six weeks.
:laugh:
Cindy
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Renate

In the dead of winter the Underground City can be a haven for the shopaholic.
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sneakersjay

Quote from: CindyJames on July 09, 2010, 03:28:47 AM
amy quote
Surgery, surgery, surgery!!! I have to come up with a reason to tell work that I need to take off for two weeks in the middle of winter.  It' hard, because they all know I'm a work-a-holic.

How about I'm going for a skiing holiday.  And later Ooops I had an accident and had to have surgery and then convalesce for another six weeks.
:laugh:
Cindy

LOL I almost did just that, Cindy!  I had a nice vacation then oops I fell off the roof, put my back out.

In the end I didn't tell them what surgery, just that I was having surgery.  Though it's kinda sorta a vacation.  More like fodder for a novel.  Serbia is very nice.  Wish I could enjoy it!!

Jay


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MsFierce

#7
I too had my Consult in Jan of 2010. It was very cold at that time. but it was so nice in Montreal, I really like that place. the people I found were very nice and friendly :).


There's a lot of Brassard Girls from Susan's having surgery. It must be a record for a forum for one surgeon.
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FairyGirl

I paid my surgeon, anesthesiologist, and the hospital separately. I sent the surgeon's and anesthesiologist's checks about 30 days in advance, but didn't pay the hospital until the day I checked in. BTW, my surgeon's fee included a full extra night in the hospital, as well as the blood transfusion I ended up needing at no extra cost to me. Dr. McGinn has 2 rooms reserved especially for her patients at the hospital, and all the nurses and staff there were excellent. I couldn't have received better care.
Girls rule, boys drool.
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K8

I didn't go to Brassard, but I paid a small deposit when I asked for a surgery date and then paid the full amount two weeks before surgery.  There were two certified checks - one to Bowers and one to the hospital.

And Montreal is a wonderful city any time of year. :)

- Kate
Life is a pilgrimage.
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glendagladwitch

I went to Menard, Brassard's predecessor in Montreal.  There was a mixup with the price due to change in the exchange rate between when they sent the letter and when I paid the remaining amount upon arrival.  They said I owed several hundred more dollars, and I didn't have it.  So I showed them the letter, and they said it was lucky I had the letter or I would be going home with no surgery.  But everyone else got pain pills afterward during their stay.  I got Tylenol.  That was just a ridiculous amount of pain to endure on Tylenol, especially the plane ride home with the stent.  I still resent it.
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amy2003

Well, &^%#@^*~!!!!!!!!!  What do you mean more than two weeks?  Surely that is negotiable?  There is absolutely no way I can be out for 6-8 weeks and keep my job!!

I feel sick to my stomach.
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Kristyn

Quote from: amy2003 on July 09, 2010, 08:45:32 PM
Well, &^%#@^*~!!!!!!!!!  What do you mean more than two weeks?  Surely that is negotiable?  There is absolutely no way I can be out for 6-8 weeks and keep my job!!

I feel sick to my stomach.

Honey, you need time to heal.  Do you really want to go through all that crap only to end up with complications?  If you're going to Montreal, you'll be spending ten days there.  Do you really think following a major surgery you will be raring to go in 14 days?  How about dilating?  Are you going to do that at work two maybe three times a day?  If your boss will fire you over taking time to recoup from a surgery, he's guaranteed to fire you for running off to the washroom to dilate a couple of times per day.  Talk things out with your ->-bleeped-<- boss or get another job
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katgirl74

I was no where close to being ready to go back to work at 2 weeks. At 5 weeks, I wanted to but did not have the stamina to do it. I took 8 weeks off, and, for me, that was perfect. After my first week back though I am exhausted!! And of course I still have to work on Saturday. If I tried to go back before four weeks, I would not have made it, there was no way. I do know of people who have, but doing so risks complications, anything from tearing stitches to bleeding or poor healing. You need to be relaxing, not working after two weeks.
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amy2003

Quote from: Kristyn on July 09, 2010, 09:00:35 PM
Honey, you need time to heal.  Do you really want to go through all that crap only to end up with complications?  If you're going to Montreal, you'll be spending ten days there.  Do you really think following a major surgery you will be raring to go in 14 days?  How about dilating?  Are you going to do that at work two maybe three times a day?  If your boss will fire you over taking time to recoup from a surgery, he's guaranteed to fire you for running off to the washroom to dilate a couple of times per day.  Talk things out with your ->-bleeped-<- boss or get another job

He's not a ->-bleeped-<- boss.  He's actually a fantastic boss.  But no one at work will know I'm having surgery unless I make up some other surgery I need to have, and then half the office will want to visit me in the hospital.  I am a work-a-holic, and the people at work no pretty much every single detail about me, except for the fact that I am trans.  The thought of coming up with an excuse for two weeks was exhausting, and I hadn't even figured that out yet.
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Kristyn

Quote from: amy2003 on July 09, 2010, 09:31:18 PM
He's not a ->-bleeped-<- boss.  He's actually a fantastic boss.  But no one at work will know I'm having surgery unless I make up some other surgery I need to have, and then half the office will want to visit me in the hospital.  I am a work-a-holic, and the people at work no pretty much every single detail about me, except for the fact that I am trans.  The thought of coming up with an excuse for two weeks was exhausting, and I hadn't even figured that out yet.

Just tell them you have some disorder that only a team of Viennese surgeons can cure--that ought to pull their noses out of your butt for a while.  In regards to flowers and cards, tell them you will be kept in an isolation chamber for 4-6 weeks where you must have absolutely no contact with the outside world.  They can throw you a party upon your return in about 8 weeks.  If they ask what is wrong, and they will, tell them you are too distraught to talk about it and walk away.  Who knows you may even get twelve weeks off .  Remember!  It's not a lie if you truly believe it  ;)

Post Merge: July 09, 2010, 09:44:24 PM

Quote from: katgirl74 on July 09, 2010, 09:25:21 PM
I was no where close to being ready to go back to work at 2 weeks. At 5 weeks, I wanted to but did not have the stamina to do it. I took 8 weeks off, and, for me, that was perfect. After my first week back though I am exhausted!! And of course I still have to work on Saturday. If I tried to go back before four weeks, I would not have made it, there was no way. I do know of people who have, but doing so risks complications, anything from tearing stitches to bleeding or poor healing. You need to be relaxing, not working after two weeks.

Did Dr Mcginn give you wings?   ;D
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blackMamba

Amy, this is a great question since you are going to Montreal for surgery.  Now, assuming you are not from Canada, you should watch the exchange rate and try to buy Canadian dollars when your country's currency is stronger.  The nice thing about Montreal, as the others have mentioned, is they don't require all the money right away.  So, if the exchange rate is doing really badly, and there is speculation your currency may become stronger in the future, you might want to hold off on making a full payment until the time you think it will be at the most advantageous.  On the flipside, if you wait, you also might end up paying more if your currency becomes weaker.

For example, here are some sample exchange rates for USD/CAD and what it would cost you for $18,000 CAD:

$18,000 / 0.95 = $18,947
$18,000 / 1.00 = $18,000
$18,000 / 1.03 = $17,476 (today's closing rate)
$18,000 / 1.10 = $16,346
$18,000 / 1.25 = $14,440

You get the idea, the higher the USD/CAD exchange rate, the less money it will cost you.  Of course, people have full-time jobs speculating currency, and no one really knows where the rate is heading at any given time.  http://finance.yahoo.com/q?s=USDCAD=X  Please note, the bank that does the exchange will typically have a lower exchange rate than the one quoted on the yahoo website.

If you are from Canada, disregard what I said because you are paying with Canadian dollars anyways so it's 1-1.  If you are from another country besides the US, use the exchange rate for your country. 

To answer your question:  no, I didn't pay the entire amount up front.  I saved a few hundred dollars by doing so, but also had I made the exchange a few months earlier, I would have saved over $1,000.  The dollar was very volatile at the time.

(Disclaimer: this is solely my view and opinion and not intended as financial advice, please consult a financial advisor before making any financial decisions.)

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Jessica.C


Thanks BlackMamba! I didn't even give this too much thought but i will be watching the exchange rate more closely. At least it appears that i lucked out on my first deposit i payed on May 25.


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K8

Amy, I'm retired and considerably older, but there was no way that I could have made it through a work day after only two weeks.  I wasn't comfortable doing anything for very long - even sitting - and couldn't have kept my mind on anything. 

If you are a workaholic, then you need to take at least a month off - doctor's orders - and maybe six weeks so that you don't burn yourself out within the next five years.  You are going to a retreat so that you can learn to balance your home life and your work life better and do a better job without stressing yourself out so much, blah blah blah.  And of course part of the retreat is that you don't have contact with your work folk, so no cards or emails, etc.  (And, in a way, this is all true. ;))

- Kate
Life is a pilgrimage.
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Renate

The problem of going back to work after surgery is dependent on three factors:


  • Time considerations of having to dilate
  • Difficulty/discomfort of sitting
  • The enormous assault on your body of the surgery and its effect on your stamina.
    Don't underestimate this one. Sleep, naps, good diet, exercise and time are the only cure.
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