Question for sexually active post-ops

[Foamhead]

Sorry if this is the wrong place to post but I'm not sure if it should be here or Life Experience...mods feel free to move it if I made a boo boo.

Can a man tell the difference between sex with a trans-woman and a girl who is not? In other words, do their "bits" feel the same? If he ejaculates inside is it a major clean up hassle?

I am going to be getting SRS and I can't find anyone who will answer my concern.

God bless everyone.

[rejennyrated]

Short answer, if you go to a decent surgeon for your SRS and you have no complications during recovery, no there should be no noticeable difference.

From notes compared, when I was younger, with natal female girlfriends the "clean up" issues after a heterosexual encounter are exactly the same for them as they are for me, and although I had a policy, for safety sake, of telling my lovers of my past I understand from many that there is no difference in the experience from their point of view either.

[Cruelladeville]

On my experience nope...

And I've had some fairly smart b/f's over the years...(you know graduate types) including a national paper journalist...

My surgery was done well back in the 1990's....in Brighton a wee beach-side place in the UK.....

But I didn't do the sex thing till at least a year after (patience is a virtue few of us can wait for)....ha, ha...

As to sperm....nope, if you be fully healed... just douche yerself like any regular gal does.... and it's a bitch to sleep in the damp patch....

No really it is....*s->-bleeped-<-s*

[pretty pauline]

Can a man tell the difference between sex with a trans-woman and a girl who is not? In other words, do their "bits" feel the same? If he ejaculates inside is it a major clean up hassle?



God bless everyone.

In my experience no, my boyfriend who is now my fiancé is a hetrosexual guy, has had other girl friends in the past, Im trans and he tells me my pussy is just like any other regular girl, if not better lol as for sperm, as somebody else has said, a good douche takes care of that, this thread maybe of similar interest to you https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,77703.msg538355.html#msg538355

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[Jessica.C]

Excellent Read Here

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[Northern Jane]

I was very sexually active after SRS in 1974 - it was, after all, the days of Peace, Love & Rock & Roll  I will not say how many guys I was with (thankfully before AIDS) but it was a lot. Of all of them, only one knew my past and only one became the least bit suspicious.

Now, over 36 years on, some guys notice a difference and comment that I am tight but I am also very sensual and orgasmic so they are usually preoccupied with other things 

[peggygee]

Short answer, if you go to a decent surgeon for your SRS and you have no complications during recovery, no there should be no noticeable difference.

From notes compared, when I was younger, with natal female girlfriends the "clean up" issues after a heterosexual encounter are exactly the same for them as they are for me, and although I had a policy, for safety sake, of telling my lovers of my past I understand from many that there is no difference in the experience from their point of view either.

Totally agree with this, that if one goes to a competent surgeon, that they will be very pleased with their
surgical outcome, and that it is virtually identical to our natal conterparts.

Though if a woman is displeased with her results, then she may opt for labiaplasty or other cosmetic
alterations, and she most certainly be pleased with her designer vagina.

[rejennyrated]

Though if a woman is displeased with her results, then she may opt for labiaplasty or other cosmetic
alterations, and she most certainly be pleased with her designer vagina.

Which I did! And I am!!

As the "rework" cost only a fraction of the first job my only regret is having waited so long (25yrs+) for stage 2.

[ToniAndrea]

I am very satisfied with the results of my srs with Mike Royle. Looks good, works good and by golly it does you good.lol

[jade]

As long as you don't have bad scarring, and no excessive erectile tissue poking and its functional, guys shouldn't be suspicious.

[Steph]

I guess for the best answer one would need to ask a male who has had intimate relations with both

However, the men who I have dated have not remarked negatively at all and they were all fairly longs relationships.  I have to agree with the comments with regard to the skill of the surgeon as the look and feel of the "End Product" is essential to successful sexual activity.  If it doesn't look right or feel right the guys won't be back.

Steph