thanks, I'm pretty bored at the moment, and this gave me something to do.
-why some TS people need validation?
why does anyone need validation? that's just a human characteristic. As much as people say that how YOU feel is the only thing that matters, we all know that the way others perceive us is important. It does matter, because life is about your relationships with other people, not you alone in your head.
-why people sometimes accuse someone that theyr not ts? i mean why would anyone say they are ts while they are not , i mean let's face it , it does suck to be one
Maybe it's someone who believes that the transition process isn't worth it, and they want to stop someone they love from going through it, so they want to convince whoever it is that they are mistaken. maybe they don't believe that it's a real condition. It's obvious to someone who has experienced gender confusion, that it's real, but to someone who is happy with their biological gender, and never gave any thought to wanting to be anything different, it could be hard to understand.
and people say they are things that they aren't all the time, maybe they are misinterpreting their feelings, maybe they crave attention?, that's what the real life experience, therapy, standards of care, etc etc are for, to make sure transitioning is the best option for a person. to make sure they aren't just a cross dresser or gay or something else.
-is it ever over? i mean does a TS person ever stops being discriminated and labeled?
I would say no, it's never over. but depending on how well you pass, and the attitudes of the people around you, you may or may not be discriminated against/labeled on a regular basis. (or at all?)
-before they 'discover' HRT and surgeries what people with GID used o do?
I don't know, suffer from depression?
- is the error in the mind or the body? and if it's an error , then is it a disease?and if it is , does that mean they could discover a 'cure' that is less painful/ and more tolerated/affordable than the process of transitioning?
depends on how you are defining error and disease. it is currently viewed as a psychological disorder, something that some people are unhappy with. Personally I don't care, and I can't see any alternative to transitioning. They use to try to change the mind, with ECT and what not, but it just fried their brains. I don't even trust the ECT they administer these days, cause I've seen people after they had it done, not pretty!
-why the world has so much hatred? i mean what would people lose if they don't discriminate or hate an entire group or race for no reasonable cause? how come they don't understand that this is making life hell?
rhetorical question I'm assuming. but my answer is the world is a horrible place. People aren't inherently good. We hate things that confuse us, that we can't understand. I think of it as a defense mechanism.
- why people are mostly always behind masks , why are they making it so hard on themselves and others?
because life is about the relationships we have with people, and not everyone wants you to bear your soul to them. the majority of our interactions are superficial, and that's just the way it is, so we do our best to get along with people and prevent conflict, thus masks. If we all went around saying everything we felt like saying, doing everything we felt like doing, I think we'd all kill each other.
-why do we have to do anything if after all you will die , why don't we just have fun and fun until we die
because then we can't maintain a stable society to raise our young in. We're animals too, and our purpose is survival, and the way things work in this elaborate get up that we're stuck with, is people work to make money to support themselves and their offspring. At least we have more free time than we would in a hunter gatherer society.
-why people die so easy and so sudden? i mean at one moment someone is there next moment they just aren't ...anything
because the human body isn't perfect, sometimes it malfunctions and people die, and because there are a lot of dangerous things out there, and the human body is not impenetrable. It can only function under certain conditions, so sometimes it's gonna shut down.
-what will happen when people keep multiplying until resources on earth are not enough, will they kill each other?
Thomas Robert Malthus proposed a theory like that forever ago, and you'll notice we're still here. He assumed that food production would increase linearly with population, but due to advances in technology and such, there were exponential increases. Will we run out of some resources? yes, will we find alternatives? maybe. will this world eventually come to an end? yes, but not any time soon. Eventually we'll probably break into smaller and smaller settlements, that are simpler and easier to maintain. but I'm not qualified to say what's gonna happen. If your really interested, I would do some research.
