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What does being treated like a female feel like?

Started by Megan, August 07, 2010, 08:31:45 AM

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Kristyn

Quote from: Cruelladeville on August 11, 2010, 03:55:17 AM


If you want a good male buddy (and want to keep him) keep doing something with him, preferably outdoorsie and adventurous... and don't keep talking about it....lol

I'm going to have to agree with you.  Some of the best relationships along with some of the best sex I had when living as male and dating women were those where the relationship was based on an equal partnership.  Everything was out in the open and on the table.  There were no secrets and no reason to sneak around.   We lived, loved and laughed together and the trust factor was never an issue.  As much as I love cooking and servicing a man, I'm not going to be there exclusively for those purposes.

I'm a very active person--hobbies, sports, etc.  and I'm only going to become more active after my surgery.  Volleyball, racquet sports, you name it and I expect the same from any man I may date in the future.  There is no way I'm going to tolerate some fat, balding couch potato wearing a wife beater T with stains on it!
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Myself

Today I was at the train station and some guy was stalking me and walking back and forth around where I went looking at me. If I went to another place, he went to walk in circles there instead!

Then I found a police officer and stood next to him, the guy disappeared.. until the officer went in a train :P

Also, unrelated.. know it when you have a guy friend and he wants more than just friendship and you aren't interested and he stops being a friend? :/
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pretty pauline

Quote from: insideontheoutside on August 11, 2010, 05:27:12 AM


7. Someone else already mentioned the long wait at a public restroom, but also be prepared for women to potentially talk to you in there or to overhear other women talking. I always thought that was the weirdest thing. Like you're in a public toilet, in a line, ready to piss your pants, and some women says something to you. Or you'll hear two women carrying on a conversation while they're sitting in the stalls. When I need to use a public restroom I just want to get in and out of there not go to a social club. lol
No I never found it weird striking up conversation with other women, specially when Im standing in the long wait bursting for a pee, I find it takes my mind off the wait as sometimes its agony holding on to it lol, guys never have that wait, but thats life, its very funny, a lady resently was telling me a very funny story about her husband, just laughing I actually wet my knickers, its not the first time Iv had a little accident in the line blush blush, when my turn came, I just took them off and folded them up inside paper tissue, sometimes carry a spare in my purse, now if a guy wets his pants, well a replacement is not always easy, so women do have an advantage sometimes.
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insideontheoutside

Quote from: pretty pauline on August 11, 2010, 02:30:58 PM
No I never found it weird striking up conversation with other women, specially when Im standing in the long wait bursting for a pee, I find it takes my mind off the wait as sometimes its agony holding on to it lol, guys never have that wait, but thats life, its very funny, a lady resently was telling me a very funny story about her husband, just laughing I actually wet my knickers, its not the first time Iv had a little accident in the line blush blush, when my turn came, I just took them off and folded them up inside paper tissue, sometimes carry a spare in my purse, now if a guy wets his pants, well a replacement is not always easy, so women do have an advantage sometimes.
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Well there you go, more proof of the difference between male and female brains (whether the body they were born into "matches" or not)! Cause yeah, I just find that really weird and uncomfortable talking to other people in the toilet lol ;)
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lilacwoman

Quote from: insideontheoutside

4. Being referred to as, sweetheart, babe, honey, hun, etc. etc. by men you don't know.
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In my area men add 'love' to remarks to women and I quite like it.  Thanks. love,
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pretty pauline

Quote from: insideontheoutside on August 11, 2010, 03:50:16 PM
Well there you go, more proof of the difference between male and female brains (whether the body they were born into "matches" or not)! Cause yeah, I just find that really weird and uncomfortable talking to other people in the toilet lol ;)
I do agree with that quote, when it comes to toilets, men and women are different, insideontheoutside your beginning to sound like my Fiancé, he just asked me last night ''why do women go to the toilet in groups'' he just doesn't understand, we had been out with 4 other couples, friends of ours, when after the meal 2 of the women made a move for the ladies room, then looked in my direction and the other lady and asked us if we wanted to join them, so the 4 of us went to the toilet and left the guys to chat, well I wasn't missing out on the latest gossip, its part of the night out, even if your not having pee, touching up my makeup or fixing my hair, having a giggle or a girly chat about men or whatever, its nice, I enjoy it, just part of my feminine personality, its a girl thing, guys don't understand it because guys don't do it, must be very dull in a men's room, I hated it from what I can remember, I much prefer being a woman, its far nicer.
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Kat_Misunderstood

Quote from: insideontheoutside on August 11, 2010, 03:50:16 PM
Well there you go, more proof of the difference between male and female brains (whether the body they were born into "matches" or not)! Cause yeah, I just find that really weird and uncomfortable talking to other people in the toilet lol ;)

I've always liked to carry on a conversation in the men's room, and I occasionally go with my friends.  It really weirds people out  >:-), but It's a good place to talk, especially in a place that is noisy. 

But anyways, It just seems to me that people in general are more considerate to me in girl mode, and I like it ;D.
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tekla

In the current state of America at least, being treated like a woman is very little different from being treated like a man.  If you are treated very different, you're not being treated like a woman, you're being treated like someone's bitch.
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