Tentacles is a good description in fact...lol
The reality me thinks is that if you've got adaptable genes, and many more estrogens receptors than a typical XY male..plus the HRT works well for you over 2-5 years or so pre SRS, and you've got the best material (physical) left to get a good result, and last but not least a Dr that's highly skilled and talented....then for 66% of us... the aesthetics will be damned good...and with care and time all should settle well enough.
If a lot of the above are sadly not a workable option for you then me thinks you fall into the other 33% category...where the results will be just so, so.....
But for many this is still loads better than living in twilight no mans land of in-betweeners.....
Though it's never going to be possible to have a vagina exactly as if you were born with one from birth... and yes the clitoris's in natal women are beautifully complex...and not just simple tiny buds....
However due to our unique post-op TG anatomy, many of us can enjoy vaginal orgasms, which many natal women can not....
And also in our case its less about the glans bud... and more about the nerves that lie up from it and along our neo vagina's... even pre my revision.... I used to get an internal pull-up and tightening of my girlie bits when aroused...which was extremely pleasant....
How I'll be post this latest revision, who knows? As I'm in the ghormanghastly it all looks visually horrible, bruised swollen 48hrs after surgery phase, because there are so many blood vessel in that part of me... but hopefully as Dr M said all the nerves looked good and intact...when he checked on opening me up....and over the next two weeks or so it should all settle back down again once more... and as long as I follow my after care instructions to the letter... and take extreme care...
You have to have nerves of steel and faith.....at this point...I kid you not... and I have ice packs constantly against me!!
Then if I'm lucky hopefully in 3-4 months normal functionality (with improved aesthetics) will once more be resumed....
And finally, good luck to all you ladies seeking cute neo-vagina's, or about to go in for surgery soon..... its one of the toughest aspects we have to undertake...
And the dark-side-of-the moon phase, mentally hard for sure...
so better forewarned than not.... and hope this helps?