I feel a bit of a fraud, hopping here from a topic in which I proclaim my angsty doubt about my efforts to transition, but actually I've found that the little nuances I'd hoped would come to me in transition have, for the most part, already settled. I've always been a reserved sort of guy and not noticeably feminine in my actions, so I've not had much work to do when it comes to stopping slouching, for example. Something about the fact I've embraced transition has unlocked the gate on impromptu mannerisms, though. My walk can still take some conscious setting, but I've found it very easy to swing my arms and grasp my bags in a lady-like way as it somehow feels natural. It could be that my years of observing and envying women actually did some good as I 'wrote my mental patch software'. 😉