Hey guys, just to update on this. I took everything on board and spent well.. a month and a half deciding where to go, in the end I still went with Dr. Curtis, since it seemed like the only real option at the moment if I want an appointment sooner rather than later.
I did finally hear from Charing X, I'm down for an appointment there in February 2011 too, which is about when I was expecting. But for me, another 6 months of no progess is too long. ): I would so much rather shell out some extra cash and actually get things rolling. So I hope to see Dr. Curtis for one or two sessions, then continue with NHS in Feb. From what Charing X doctors have said that should be fine with them..
I also phoned the number you gave me Flameboy, but it always went straight to voicemail! I left a message with still no response yet. It's a shame 'cause Dr. Lorimer definitely would have been my first choice, but perhaps he hasn't started taking patients privately yet?
I also went to my GP who said she's happy to do the T prescription on the NHS. And the blood test fees etc can be done on the NHS too, so that should keep the costs down a lot.

And I'm getting a letter from the gender therapist I've been seeing since Feb this year, which Dr. Curtis's secretary said would be veery useful.
So, my appointment is in.. 9 days. I am hugely excited.

As far as whether I'm given Nebido or Sustanon I'm not fussy, until I've tried either I have no idea how my body will react personally. And when I go to Charing X they can put me on Sustanon if they want to, as long as it's still T. p:
My family is using male pronouns with me now, and I've been working with my HR manager on a coming out plan for the rest of people at work who don't already know. Feels like things are definitely rolling!