I know it can be overwhelming...the link is good and should be able to walk you through it.
I am an attorney ... so if you want to send me a PM with questions -- what does such and such mean? How do I get the fees waived & such I will gladly answer them for you. I can't promise I will see comments on this thread --- I am not consistent on when I come here. However, I will respond to your PM messages
That goes for anyone in the USA who has questions regarding their name changes - you don't have to give me specifics about yourself ... I will help you navigate forms & explain things.
In addition, several states allow for you on your name change form to also request the changing of your gender .. so I can help with that as well. I know we intend to do so for our son since his birth state is a bit strict on changing the birth certificate and the state we live in is less strict.