I'm not entirely sure when things became more natural. A lot of things came naturally on their own without really thinking much about it. Last year was a year of exploration but this year I went full time. I've been told i have changed in ways I am not aware of.
Mmmmmm natural, it did not come all in one hit, but drips and drabs. I started to move differently, use my hands more in conversations. I started to walk taller. I did think about my walk a lot, but now all I do is stick on my heals and my hips swing all on their own.
I only ever thought about a few things at a time. Like my walk, the way I spoke to people letting myself use more modulation in my voice, and just becoming more curious about people's feelings in general. A lot of it just comes, like Izumi said. You just start to live.
I still think about some things. Like the way I nod at other blokes I know as I pass, most women don't do that. But after 8 months I really feel like I have settled into myself.