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I've heard stuff about some TS being 'clear-cut cases' of transsexuality.
But what would make one TS a 'clear cut case' and the other not?
Or is TSism like being pregnant- you either are or you're not period, there is no in-between?
There's lots of in-between. What I read here is catagories than degrees. I view it as a spectrum of male to female (man to woman if you want too) with a huge overlap between the two in the innate feelings and public expressions (which also varys with each society and culture through history), so it's not fixed by any means.
I also see everyone as being both male and female, and man and woman, in our own proportion, like two parallel bar graphs. There is the basic nature part where we are who, and there is the nuture (socialization) which adds to both, usually one from family, friends, experience, etc. Sort of like for m2f's:
| | |
| | _ _ _ _ |
|_______| New |
| Old | Nuture |
| Nuture |_______|
|_______| |
| | |
| Nature | Nature |
| | |
|_______|_______|
Male Female
The proportion of nature of each within us varys where if the female nature is strong it will clearly present itself over any nuture. But in some, the nuture (enforced or self-induced) will subdue the female nature until it is removed and move to the female side.
And it's also variable with hormones, as we see in the our development and in our transistion. We're fluid in our identity to some degree nature provided which can explain why we can change. And why there are infinite degrees and expressions of ->-bleeped-<-, and even transsexualism since we all become women of different personalities, temperaments and expression. Good old fashioned human diversity. Ok, sometimes run amuck.
[Personal note. I expressed this to my therapist and explained there is a little girl on top of the male nuture side jumping up and down, and it's ever so slowly breaking, cracking and wearing away. And another little girl on the other side building the new nuture side.]
Just my thoughts.
--Susan--