Lost another friend - I want to crawl in a hole and die

[becky007]

She meant so much to me. I am so sick and tired of being understanding for others - I was hoping for a little compassion - at the very least. It was the only person I really hoped that would try to be understanding. Do people really hate us so much.

[cynthialee]

.....

**gives big hug to Becky**

[Miniar]

*hug*

Give a little time, maybe she'll come around, and if not, then she wasn't really a friend to start with.

this too shall pass

[Raven]

I'm so sorry to hear that   Unforuntatly some people are like that, but on the bright side there are some people out there who are open to crossdressers and trans people. But the way I look at it a true friend will accept you for you no matter what. *big hugs*

[spacial]

becky.

So many of us know just how you're feeling right now. These things cause so many negative emotions.

If we concentrate on doing the right thing, offering support where it's needed, without expectation, eventually, we will attract the right sort of company.

But a big hug to you right now.

[Octavianus]

I am sorry to hear this, Becky.
Like others say if she doesn't accept you for who you are, it was never a true friend. But finding out like this hurts. Take some time to mourn, eventually your feelings of loss will pass.

-big hug-

[becky007]

Thanx every one. I realize now this was in the fashion section - sorry. I have known her since we were kids. Some times she can be so mean. I always have tried to understand her - and just love her for - just being herself. The good - the bad - the ugly - all of her. Even being in this much pain - I think maybe she is only doing this because she is hurt. But may be I have always just made excuses for her.
She is the only person in my life who always had the power to really hurt me. I will still love her no matter how much she hurts me. I wish I could stop.