She messaged me today to tell me she loves me...

[RN1814]

The worst thing has happened. I hate myself for this.
Remember the thread I started yesterday? The net friend who needed help messaged me today to tell me she loves me...
I had no idea before. Shocked, I rejected her with strong apologize,for in our culture, it is very impolite for a guy to reject a girl immediately and completely.
I always intend to start a relationship with transgender like myself, but not a "normal"girl,as I don't want to be a burden to another half. Besides,I love the battle companions,always have a good opinion of people like me.
I cannot tell the truth.People here dont understand and even don't know the concept of  TG/TS.She may get scared to extreme attitude even.I have no one to tell. None of my parents understand (eventhrough we are in good relationship.) People here just do not understand and keep joking about those who r different. Prejudice is ignorant,but they still acting like that.
I m only human. I am alone and scared of group pressure in my society like any other ordinary person
Sigh.
The internet is the only place that I can act like a nomal guy.
But,likeI said b4,in our culture,it is very impolite for a guy to reject a girl immediately and completely...So I said goobye to the forum I love for more than 5 years.I know it's like a coward,but there is nothing else I can do. People just don't accept TG there,for I've been watching and I can tell, many people are disgusted by this,even to those who r  in their inner group.So I can imagine the consequence of coming out and telling the truth..Not their fault,but our tradition and opnions.

Farewell all my friends there.I am so sorry. I will always miss them.I love them,but if they know the truth..all my buddys and those female friends,will you still love me?No.

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[spacial]

Since you've left that forum, you could text the girl back and tell her the truth now.

Think about it, what's she going to do?

Tell everyone in a forum you don't belong to any more?

At best, she will appreciate your honest and say she still feels the same.

At worst, she won't respond, which is basically what you have now.

[Aegir]

Since you've left that forum, you could text the girl back and tell her the truth now.

Think about it, what's she going to do?

Tell everyone in a forum you don't belong to any more?

At best, she will appreciate your honest and say she still feels the same.

At worst, she won't respond, which is basically what you have now.

I second this. I'm very sorry all this is happening to you.

[annette]

Hi just me
I understand your fear but take a good look about the situation.
you do n't want to be ruled out because you are a TG
so, you are different.
But, you rule out a person who is not different.
think about the best and worst case scenario.
People are attracted to another because of the person.
apparently you've made the right impression to her.
Nobody is perfect, there is something about every person.
Maybe you let a change get away to be loved and happy and that would be very sorry
I'll hope you will be given it a second thought.
and remember, you have the right to be who you are and if someone is not accepted that, you can turn your back to them.
I wish you wisdom and happiness

love
annette