How is it for the girl?

[jade]

Hi,

I have seen the topic asking "How is it for the guy?" wondering how vaginas feel for male partners of special girls.

It is an interesting topic indeed. However I also think, we are so concerned about pleasing the other party and making it a good experience for them, we should also discuss our experiences frankly on how our partners make us feel and what they do for us and compare to see similarities and differences and other issues relating to our experiences because we are the ones who have gone into the effort of spending time, emotion and money so it should be a little bit more about us.

I'd like to hear from girls who are sexually active and talk about how it feels for you when you have intercourse.

Things like; Do you require using lube? Can you accomodate almost any men? Do you warm up easily?
Do you experience UTI's or yeast infections? Are you able to orgasm from vaginal intercourse only? How long does it take for you to climax from sex? Is it satisfying for you? Do you secrete anything when you orgasm? Does your male partner give you oral sex? How much do they satisfy you? Do they know your history? Have you had issues with intercourse? How often are you sexually active?

I'd like this to be a very open and judgement free discussion. Please feel free to share.. 

[ameliat]

Jade,
I a pre op too and would like to the post op gals will help us. I am just too curious I guess. Thanks for asking these questions and I hope some of the post op gals are good enough to answer.
Amelia

[pretty pauline]

Iv answered most of your questions here https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,77703.msg538355.html#msg538355   and here https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,24136.msg546361.html#msg546361 but its a very individual thing, maybe thats why there are so few serious replys.

Things like; Do you require using lube? Can you accomodate almost any men? Do you warm up easily?

In resent times I do use a lube as my girl gets quite dry down there, no I can't accomodate enormous guys, always found it sore and tight, Im lucky my Husband is just a nice size, I don't warm up easy, have to be serenaded lol, but honestly I just love being cuddled, kissed and held.
I love the satisfaction intercourse gives my Husband, yes he knows my history but has never known me as anybody else, never as a guy, he has only ever known me as a woman.

Intercourse is also a nice warm feeling, the bit I don't like is when after he shoots his juice he just wants to leave, why do guys do that, I'II never know, he all tense up, then he shoots, then he's exhausted, gives me a big thank you french kiss on the lips, then turns over and falls asleep, I'II have to get to the bottom of that, I'II just end up being 1 frustrated housewife, thats why its best to leave intercourse to the very end, leave him waiting to keep his interest.
It can be a very private between 2people, Im still in love with my hubby, but we have very different needs in the bedroom.
Pauline

[spacial]

he just wants to leave, why do guys do that, ........... then he's exhausted,

Think you answered your question love.

My understanding of the details is a bit sketchy, but that's the way nature made them. Objective achieved. Sleep and let her go.

Nature probably isn't much for romance. Though, from an evolutionary point of view, I've often wondered why women are not affected in the same way. We could probably work out some pretty good conjecture.

But you can sometimes get him going again. You need to move down a bit and do a lot of work with your tongue and fingers. But all over the locale, including the back. Careful though that he is receptive.

[ToriJo]

Of course you could always make the guy do what you need first, with his objective the prize *after* you've had yours.  He'll be motivated.    Or have fun early in the day instead of at night.  As for falling asleep, there is scientific reasons for it - chemicals that are released in the body that affect his brain, etc - so we really *can't* help it.

[spacial]

The biology I understand. It's the evolutionary purpose I don't.

I did once hear a postulate that it was to prevent men from over exhausting themselves. Apparently male sheep, for example, will carry on till they drop, and they often do. Once reason why, apparently, shepherds put something on them which prevents them from doing it.

But that doesn't really explain why it doesn't seem to affect females.