You prefer to be BEAUTIFUL(but NOT PASSING) or PASSING(but ORDINARY-LOOKING)?

[CaitJ]

I am very, very, very fortunate that I pass 100%, even when stripped down in two hospitals.  And yes, I am still pre-op. (but not for long)..

Can I ask how? By stripped down, you mean 'totally naked', right? Or do you mean just to your underwear?

[KillBelle]

Oh you have way too much free time on your hands, my friends and i did enjoy a laugh though so thanks =]

It's ok babe you wouldn't understand <33333

MWUAH!

[MillieB]

Maybe you two should date?

[KillBelle]

Maybe you two should date?

I am open-minded...just not THAT open-minded =]

[CaitJ]

Oh you have way too much free time on your hands, my friends and i did enjoy a laugh though so thanks =]

Nothing wrong with having free time. Worked hard to get this free time, in fact 

It's ok babe you wouldn't understand <33333

Righto 

Maybe you two should date?

I'm taken

[KillBelle]

I have already fully transitioned..  I have been living full time as a woman for over two years and no one ever questions my gender, not in the grocery store, not in the ladies room, not when I'm stripped half naked in the hospital (two times)..  All that lacks is to correct my problem down below which no one ever sees but me.  Having SRS won't suddenly make me a woman.  People won't walk up to me in the store and say "OH HI!  I see you have a vagina today!  Congratulations, you're a woman now!"

So as I've said for a long time, my transition is complete and over with.  The one thing that's left to do is a private thing just between me and the mirror...

Well i wish you the best of luck with your SRS and your top surgery. I know mine was very fulfilling <3

[CaitJ]

Ah, I see - half naked.
I was under the impression you were fully naked and you passed with your genitals exposed. That would be quite a feat! 
I've had the 'any chance you might be pregnant?' a few times at the hospital. Always makes me smile.

[JennX]

How about both? 

[Sad Girl]

Maybe you two should date?

I am open-minded...just not THAT open-minded =]

I'm taken

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL! 

[Alexandra]

To be honest I'd rather be passing, but ordinary looking than beautiful and passing.

Beautiful girls seem to get a lot of unwanted attention.

[CaitJ]

Beautiful girls seem to get a lot of unwanted attention.

Actually, the reverse is true. Beauty intimidates - most men don't think they are good enough for a really stunning woman and will rarely or never approach them.

[Britney♥Bieber]

Actually, the reverse is true. Beauty intimidates - most men don't think they are good enough for a really stunning woman and will rarely or never approach them.

I agree with this. I'm straight, but beautiful women intimidate me as well. My bestie works with this girl and we just die we think she's the most gorgeous person ever and a couple of times we talked for a while about how pretty she is lol. But I'm so scared to ever talk to her. =/ haha not that I see her all the time but when we go into the store and she chats with sam I'm like....uhh *dies inside* lol. And not that i'm good at approaching boys I can see myself approaching a plain boy before I chat it up with a hot stranger.

[Rock_chick]

I had this conversation with my mum and after 39 years as a thoroughly average looking person, I think that if I spent a fortune on ffs and such and looked stunning, I'm not all that sure that I'd have a clue how to deal with it! I don't even think that it's a question of feminism because I think that all really good looking people get treated differently and very good looking women get treated very differently by other women as well as men and I think that you most likely need to have experienced this a little younger than I am to be able to adapt. I'll do what I need to do in terms of things that are obviously masculine but I've no real desire to look like Kylie!

I like the quiet life!

I'm actually slightly scared by this...i like the quite life too, but enough people have said that I better get used to the attention that I have to accept that they're probably not all blind or deranged. If they are right I'm really not sure how I'll deal with it. Maybe i should become a nun.

[Britney♥Bieber]

I'm actually slightly scared by this...i like the quite life too, but enough people have said that I better get used to the attention that I have to accept that they're probably not all blind or deranged. If they are right I'm really not sure how I'll deal with it. Maybe i should become a nun.

Why a nun?

[Rock_chick]

nuns generally have a quiet life...apart from the 5am prayers

[Britney♥Bieber]

but they never look cute!

[Rock_chick]

Oh I don't know, a wimple, a really short hem line, some stockings and a pair of CFMs could look cute...or maybe just provocative. hehe

I think i'd be a rubbish nun anyway...i don't really function in the morning, don't believe in god and tend to change the words in prayers.

[MillieB]

Nuns still get to have lots of sex with lots of hot people right? What!!! well you can count me out!!

[Rock_chick]

Are we talking nunnery nuns or nun-o-gram nuns here...same genus, very different species.

[Britney♥Bieber]

Oh I don't know, a wimple, a really short hem line, some stockings and a pair of CFMs could look cute...or maybe just provocative. hehe

I think i'd be a rubbish nun anyway...i don't really function in the morning, don't believe in god and tend to change the words in prayers.

lol I don't believe in religion really. It ruins things just think politics cans. Not saying I don't respect either, I just wish they weren't such problem causers. =/ Just my personal experience though. My best friend is christian.

Nuns still get to have lots of sex with lots of hot people right? What!!! well you can count me out!!

lol. If that's your reasoning for not becoming a nun I might as well sign up today. =/ haha