I really don't think that it will be that much of a problem. I could be wrong. I have not had my birth certificate change either. I know I could get it done real easy as I was born in California. I have only used it once since I got married (that was a long time ago so I don't even remember if I used it then or not), I had to have it for my passport and they sent me my passport as female with my picture. I had big hair then and had to have my picture taken twice as they didnt accept it the first time. You will still be on file as your birth name and gender, even if you get it changed. You will be an alias. The courts and the police can pull up your file and it will list all your alias. It is the computer age. There is nothing secret about you lives anymore, especially the people who had to have an SS# when they were born. We had to get one for our daughter and she is now 37. Now, Bush has signed a bill that allows the government to snoop into our mail. I have gone stealth, except everyone knows.
Sheila