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Suigeniris and
Vexing - if you don't want to BOTH end up with a Red card from me leave it RIGHT there!
Suigeniris - For the record Vexing IS postop and has been on her journey for some time, therefore she is entitled to her opinion, indeed I have been postop for over 25 years and I might even partly agree with her. So Suigeniris you deviated from the path of wisdom and broke forum TOS rule 15 when launched a personal attack on Vexing on the basis of how long she has been around, because a.) clearly you do not know the facts and b.) it's irrelevant to the truth or otherwise of her arguement.
By the same token both Vexing and I have to accept that as we have not had implants and we have not seen the breasts of all the girls that have we cannot say for certain that there are not some that do look natural. There may be. To make any other claim we have to rely on hearsay of a bra fitter who is not here to clarify her alleged remarks, and who may be very expert - but likewise probably hasn't seen every possible boob job in the world!
Thus for anyone to make such a claim is probably not helpful, which is why, despite the fact that I might privately tend to agree, I would not normally say so because it's unprovable either way.
So
Vexing - I think you probably overstated your case a little - which is completely forgivable - what is not acceptable is then to degenerate into sniping at Suigeniris. That merely inflames the situation and actually does not enhance your otherwise reasonably stated argument. It also rightly or wrongly results in you being seen as the provoker of this dispute and by implication also in breach of the same forum rule that Suigeniris has undoubtedly broken.
The sensible thing, and indeed the thing DEMANDED by forum rules is that when you come up against someone with whom you disagree, after stating your case clearly, if things are not progressing, you disengage and agree to disagree. You do not need to try to obliterate your opponent. That does nothing to enhance your reputation.
I would invite you
BOTH to review your behaviour in this thread and try to learn from it. Otherwise sooner or later one of you is going to come up against one of the mods who shoots from the hip rather more than me.
Thank you for your attention ladies.
Edit- Oh, and for the record - This was an official moderational decision - therefore if you wish to dispute it please do so privately via PM or you will add breach of forum rule 2. to the list and I may then be forced to take further more formal action.
