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Angry and jealous.

Started by Devyn, January 29, 2011, 05:08:42 PM

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LordKAT

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January 31, 2011, 10:33:45 AM
While hair can make a difference, I have long hair and can pass. It was harder pre T but I hid and still often hide my hair under a hat. I did that for the last 20+ years.
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Nikolai_S

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January 31, 2011, 12:44:16 PM
Quote from: Devyn on January 31, 2011, 05:13:16 AM
I felt like an ass though because I was debating posting a comment about it. I feel horrible when I'm...I don't know, skeptical about another person's identity.

I know, I was really torn on it myself. There are so many experiences that people have being trans, and I don't want to declare any of them invalid just because I don't understand them. But ultimately I just had to say something, and I guess learning to understand identities I don't understand is important. I have an open mind, I just wanted him to respond and say "this is just a small part of being ftm" or "it's about the confidence I've gained" or something like that. Since he didn't, I have to retain the same skepticism - and that doesn't help anyone.
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