I was asked to be a best man...

[Emmanuelle]

Oh! For those of you who didn't know, my momma gave me my name! I love it! 

So sweet! *melt*

[Vanessa_yhvh]

For me *personally*, I'd be willing to do something like that for an old bud, just because he's an old bud. But our situations are all different.

[MarinaM]

For me *personally*, I'd be willing to do something like that for an old bud, just because he's an old bud. But our situations are all different.

I think I'd do it, it would just be uncomfortable. Even as I'm letting my hair grow and curl, my clothes get brighter, and nails grow longer I get looked at strangely by men all over. It's been a long time since I've seen him last, and I think he's in for a shock even now.

Edit: I like your hair in your avatar, it's cute 

[carolinejeo]

Emma

This is my advice: Don't do it.

The wedding is a year away and you will have changed even more (I assume you are already on HRT and you already look feminine), it has the potential for disaster.

Caroline

[heatherrose]

Once I explained that I may or may not be started a hormone regime before the wedding,
I was quickly kicked out of the wedding party.

Step daughter and her husband were renewing their vows.
Step son inlaw asked me to be his best man.
My GID dam burst and I decided to start transition.
I no longer needed to show up at the church.
I was hurt but as Tekla posted,
It was their day and their decision.

[niamh]

As others has said before it is possible for a woman to be best man. Incidently I was at a wedding recently where that exact thing happened, the sister of the groom was the best man and she wore a trouser suit.

[MarinaM]

Emma

This is my advice: Don't do it.

The wedding is a year away and you will have changed even more (I assume you are already on HRT and you already look feminine), it has the potential for disaster.

Caroline

Yep, good call. Not on HRT yet though,