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I was asked to be a best man...

Started by MarinaM, February 19, 2011, 08:50:55 PM

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Emmanuelle

#20
February 21, 2011, 02:27:08 AM
Quote from: EmmaM on February 20, 2011, 09:10:43 PM
Oh! For those of you who didn't know, my momma gave me my name! I love it!  ;D

So sweet! *melt*
Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.
- Maria Robinson
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Vanessa_yhvh

#21
February 21, 2011, 09:06:35 PM
For me *personally*, I'd be willing to do something like that for an old bud, just because he's an old bud. But our situations are all different.
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MarinaM

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February 21, 2011, 09:39:55 PM
Quote from: SydneyTinker on February 21, 2011, 09:06:35 PM
For me *personally*, I'd be willing to do something like that for an old bud, just because he's an old bud. But our situations are all different.

I think I'd do it, it would just be uncomfortable. Even as I'm letting my hair grow and curl, my clothes get brighter, and nails grow longer I get looked at strangely by men all over. It's been a long time since I've seen him last, and I think he's in for a shock even now.

Edit: I like your hair in your avatar, it's cute  ;D
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carolinejeo

#23
February 22, 2011, 03:50:59 AM
Emma

This is my advice: Don't do it.

The wedding is a year away and you will have changed even more (I assume you are already on HRT and you already look feminine), it has the potential for disaster.

Caroline
Procrastination is your worst enemy.
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heatherrose

#24
February 22, 2011, 04:10:42 AM


Quote from: SnailPace on February 20, 2011, 03:23:45 PM
Once I explained that I may or may not be started a hormone regime before the wedding,
I was quickly kicked out of the wedding party. :P


Step daughter and her husband were renewing their vows.
Step son inlaw asked me to be his best man.
My GID dam burst and I decided to start transition.
I no longer needed to show up at the church.
I was hurt but as Tekla posted,
It was their day and their decision.




"I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you,
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.

So let's make the most of this beautiful day,
Since we're together, we might as well say,
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won't you be my neighbor?" - Fred Rogers
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niamh

#25
February 22, 2011, 07:53:30 AM
As others has said before it is possible for a woman to be best man. Incidently I was at a wedding recently where that exact thing happened, the sister of the groom was the best man and she wore a trouser suit.
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MarinaM

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February 22, 2011, 10:17:03 AM
Quote from: carolinejeo on February 22, 2011, 03:50:59 AM
Emma

This is my advice: Don't do it.

The wedding is a year away and you will have changed even more (I assume you are already on HRT and you already look feminine), it has the potential for disaster.

Caroline

Yep, good call. Not on HRT yet though, :(
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