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Started by Kris, March 05, 2011, 02:32:23 AM

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Taking out a loan for surgeries

Considered it, Yes...Will I do it...No
Have done it
Cannot do it, do not have the credit or too young
I have raised money other ways
All or most of mine was paid outta pocket
My insurance cover all or most of it
I want to do it, and hope I will get my surgeries done this way

Kris

Reason I ask, is because I myself am kind of up in the air with it. I know I cannot get the FULL amount from a loan but maybe some of it. I just don't want to wait for so many years until I can do it....How do all of you all feel about it? How did you come up with a big chuck of money to do it...?
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xAndrewx

I'm gonna be applying to some loan companies this weekend but I don't have the credit for it so I don't have high hopes. Just putting aside pennies for now and praying one day it'll be possible.

Kris

Quote from: Andrew Scott on March 05, 2011, 02:35:01 AM
I'm gonna be applying to some loan companies this weekend but I don't have the credit for it so I don't have high hopes. Just putting aside pennies for now and praying one day it'll be possible.
Yeah I feel you, I think I will probably have to do the same thing.
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Mr.Hyde

I sold most of my precious collections to be able to pay for my top surgery...
for me loans is a no-no because I would have not a way to pay back, and I hate te feeling to owe things...
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lancem27

Fortunately the government still covers hysto and top surgery here. :)
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quinn

I would definitely get a loan for top surgery if I had good credit. 

At the rate that I'm saving, it'll be about four years until I can get top surgery. Which is an insanely long time to wait, in my opinion. Thank god for binders. Hopefully I'll be able to get a better-paying job to speed up the process.
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Clay

i guess i'd get it covered... but even if not so, i'd be screwed, because i already got a huge amount to pay from my student loan... so basically i wouldn't be able to  before i paid that OR get a significantly better paying job.
Putting the "fun" in "dysfunctional"
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Imadique

I took out a personal loan for BA and orchie. I'd recommend saving for it yourself of course, but if you're like me and already in a lot of credit debt and desperate then it's an option. My only regret is not applying for more money to cover the full SRS but the time off would have cost me my job and I have nothing to fall back on.
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Rock_chick

I will be getting a loan to cover the balance of what I can't save. I want this to be done sooner rather than later and realistically a loan is the fastest way.
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emoglassesenvy


my boyfriend got a loan out for his top/hysto... he was paying a ridiculous interest rate so after i came into the picture and found out about it, i lent him the money to pay back the balance. he's still paying me back and will be for a while.

i don't think he could have gone this long (2.5years) sanely without getting the surgery though. it was really important to him.. and though it's an inconvenience for us now a little bit, i think it was worth it to take out the loan as long as you're sure you can pay it back.

though of course, the best way is to make money working or selling things so you don't guilt about bills ruining your happiness of getting the surgery
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Kris

Dang its crazy to see every ones different view on it!

I guess if I'm able to cover the loan amount without a problem, plus the interest rate. I think it'll be worth being in the whole for awhile....
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Adio

I have a somewhat unusual situation.  My parents put away a large amount of money for me to go to university.  They did all of this when I was just a kid.  I got a full scholarship for my first two years and scholarships that paid about half tuition the second two years.  So I get the rest of the money ($12k) for myself.  It was supposed to pay for a car or go toward an apartment, but I decided to use it for top surgery.  I need it before I go to work because of the nature of my job and my sanity.

If I didn't have the money, I would consider taking out a loan.  However, I have zero credit (that I'm aware of).  It would probably be very difficult to get the loan.
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Rosa

The thought crossed my mind, but I could never repay the loan. 
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regan

I don't know that there's a single answer to the question.  People have come up with the money in all sorts of ways (both legal and otherwise).  Each person's situation is different, so really the only thing I can agree on is yes if that's what it took to get the money.  But even that's qualified and unique to the individual.  If you got a loan for less then the full amount, what is your threshold?  How much money would you borrow?  Where do you draw the line between borrowing and waiting?  Do you borrow the money from a bank, on what terms?  Do you borrow from family, also on what terms?  Do you borrow by refinancing, knowing if you default you could lose your house, etc?  Do you borrow from retirement, knowing it might make the difference between retiring and not?
Our biograhies are our own and we need to accept our own diversity without being ashamed that we're somehow not trans enough.
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Kris

Quote from: regan on March 05, 2011, 03:04:21 PM
I don't know that there's a single answer to the question.  People have come up with the money in all sorts of ways (both legal and otherwise).  Each person's situation is different, so really the only thing I can agree on is yes if that's what it took to get the money.  But even that's qualified and unique to the individual.  If you got a loan for less then the full amount, what is your threshold?  How much money would you borrow?  Where do you draw the line between borrowing and waiting?  Do you borrow the money from a bank, on what terms?  Do you borrow from family, also on what terms?  Do you borrow by refinancing, knowing if you default you could lose your house, etc? Do you borrow from retirement, knowing it might make the difference between retiring and not?

Well see I know everybody is different, but I guess I was just interested in finding out ways most people came up with the money you know? Not a lot of people have money just laying away in a bank waiting for them to  decided what they wanted to do with it, (Lucky, to for that guy on here that did)...  I know there is not a single right answer. I get what your saying but being real, its very interesting. Me myself, I do plan on getting out a loan, on what terms? Personal...Why? because I don't want to wait a few years to save about 7,500 dollars.

What is the line between borrowing and waiting? I think knowing the line is personal for every single person. I myself, will never put my house on the line. Why? Because I could not stand the thought of if I lose it, what would my family do. Sure I would have a flat chest I always dreamed of but what good would that do for my family when we are homeless?
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regan

I've heard, stories at least, of people setting up websites to pay for their surgeries...as in asking for donations.
Our biograhies are our own and we need to accept our own diversity without being ashamed that we're somehow not trans enough.
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Adio

There are loans specific to medicine.  http://www.medicalfinancing.com/patients/ This is the first website that I found when googling (medical loans).  I know there are several others and that a few guys have used these type services to pay for surgery.

I might use something like this for my hysto if insurance doesn't cover it by the time I will need it.
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xAndrewx

Quote from: regan on March 05, 2011, 04:09:29 PM
I've heard, stories at least, of people setting up websites to pay for their surgeries...as in asking for donations.

I hear about ChipIn a lot but the problem is you have to be willing to set up an account like youtube or similar and be very open to reach people who will donate. If that's the case though I've seen people get a few hundred to thousands towards surgery in donations.

To the OP- sorry just thought the site might be of interest to anyone who hasn't heard of it yet.

Kris

Quote from: Andrew Scott on March 05, 2011, 04:30:53 PM
I hear about ChipIn a lot but the problem is you have to be willing to set up an account like youtube or similar and be very open to reach people who will donate. If that's the case though I've seen people get a few hundred to thousands towards surgery in donations.

To the OP- sorry just thought the site might be of interest to anyone who hasn't o heard of it yet.

I would love to look into that because I actually have been kind of back and forth with wanting to put my stuff on blast like that (such as youtube) cuz i mean a lot of those videos helped me out when I first started, so it would be cool to pay it foward in away...
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