I'm out completely at work. 4.5 months on T, 6 months out at work, 2 months with my new male nametag and people using my new name/male pronouns. I pass as male with customers 80 percent of the time. It's getting really awkward using the womens. I talked to my managers but last consensus was that somehow not having a M on my license makes a whole world of difference and thus I needed to use the women's still. I've been talking to my ZS and one of my assistant managers (they are the only ones in authority there I feel comfortable talking to) I need to talk to my store manager soon about it but I'm really nervous about it. I want to have policies and stuff first and experiences from other trans people at other Wal-Marts before I talk to him, so if he tries to pull the "Well legally you are classified as female" I can say well according to Wal-Mart policy and blah whatever.
I am still not that comfortable using a men's room, I don't even have an STP but I cannot keep using the women's. My co-workers are like "what do you keep using the women's for if you are supposed to be a man?" and customers stare at me and look disgusted sometimes (i usually try to go when no ones in there but I've been caught) I am going to definitely tell my store manager that it's beneficial to others viewing me as male that I stop using the women's cause that confuses them, and it could be dangerous if a woman catches me in there and feels like she or someone she knows should take actions against me outside of the store.
